If you’re a Nice Guy, or someone who likes to put off hard tasks to the very last minute, then of course, beat yourself up for doing so — and not doing more in your life — then this episode is for you. In this edition of the UNcivilized Podcast, I have a man from my Kill The Nice Guy community who shares his pattern of not doing what he needs to in a timely manner. Then guilting and shaming himself for the procrastination. THEN beating himself up more for not accomplishing more in his life. OUCH. We talk about why this pattern exists, where it comes from, and how he can make small shifts in his behavior to start being his own teammate, rather than his own tormentor. This is a powerful episode and I’m grateful of the openness of my guest. Enjoy. Please do share this with one person in your life, or twenty. Cheers, Traver

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