Episode Highlights With Devon What is happening mentally and biologically when a child is not calm and feeling triggeredThe lower part of the brain is more developed in young children and they aren’t as strong in impulse control and other skills yetAll parenting moments are opportunities for learning and growthHow to start asking questions from a place of a growth mindset vs a fixed oneAwareness is the first step in creating change and how to cultivate it in parentingLearning the pause and why it is easier in theory than in practice, plus, what to try insteadHow to disrupt the stress response and create safety physically and emotionally Ways to validate our own emotions and find inner calm again How to ground yourself in stressful parenting momentsHolding space for your child’s emotions and not sending subtle messages that their emotions aren’t okWhy not to punish a child for feeling upset or not having control of their feelings and not to distract with screens when they get upset either A subtle thing to think about before encouraging a kid to stop crying and how to help them put words and context while accepting the feeling (not always condoning the action)Her recipe for effective discipline and how to align discipline with their development How to create a connection with children at all ages and connection is the balm that can soothe feelings Ways to create awareness as a parentResources MentionedTransforming Toddlerhood by Devon KuntzmanFollow Devon on Instagram

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