The Zachary Stockill Podcast

The ONLY Effective Formula for Long-Term Relief from Retroactive Jealousy [VIDEO]

20 Jun 2022

Contributed by Lukas

In today’s video, I’m going to share the number one formula for relief from retroactive jealousy. It can work much quicker than you think. Read or...

Retroactive Jealousy LIES: Believe These At Your Peril [VIDEO]

16 Jun 2022

Contributed by Lukas

In today’s video, I’m going to talk about what I believe to be the top-4 biggest retroactive jealousy lies and misconceptions. Read or watch below...

The PERFECT Quote About “The Red Pill” Online Men’s Movement [VIDEO]

13 Jun 2022

Contributed by Lukas

In today’s video, I wanted to share the best quote about the “Red Pill” online men’s movement that I’ve ever heard. Read or watch to hear th...

How to Spot “Red Flags:” 2 Lessons from Johnny Depp [VIDEO]

09 Jun 2022

Contributed by Lukas

In today’s video, I wanted to comment on a current news story: the Johnny Depp and Amber Heard trial, and understand how to spot red flags in dating...

The #1 SECRET About Retroactive Jealousy (Really) [VIDEO]

06 Jun 2022

Contributed by Lukas

In today’s video, I share the number one secret about retroactive jealousy, informed by almost a decade of working on this peculiar issue. Read on o...

How To Get MOTIVATED to Beat Retroactive Jealousy (The Truth) [VIDEO]

02 Jun 2022

Contributed by Lukas

In today’s video, I talk about how to get motivated in the pursuit of any worthwhile goal, but in particular, overcoming retroactive jealousy. Read ...

“Is She Girlfriend Material?” The RIGHT Way for Men to Approach Dating [VIDEO]

30 May 2022

Contributed by Lukas

In today’s video, I want to share an uncommon perspective on the process of “vetting” for a potential future girlfriend or wife. Read or watch t...

Zachary Stockill Testimonial: How Gethen Beat Retroactive Jealousy [VIDEO]

26 May 2022

Contributed by Lukas

In today’s video, I had a conversation with Gethen, a retroactive jealousy survivor from Wales, and a recent graduate of my course “Get Over Your ...

Retroactive Jealousy When Your Partner Has Kids: My Thoughts [VIDEO]

23 May 2022

Contributed by Lukas

In today’s video, I’m going to talk about how to approach overcoming retroactive jealousy when your partner has kids with their ex. How to approac...

Top-5 Relationship MISTAKES I Made In My 20’s [VIDEO]

19 May 2022

Contributed by Lukas

In today’s video, I talk about 5 things I wish I knew about relationships when I was 20 years old. (**Younger retroactive jealousy sufferers please ...

Zachary Stockill Course Review: Steve’s Story [VIDEO]

17 May 2022

Contributed by Lukas

In this video, I spoke with Steve, a recent graduate of my online course, “Get Over Your Partner’s Past Fast.” Read on or watch below to listen ...

“How Should I Talk To My Partner About Their Past?” Q & A [VIDEO]

09 May 2022

Contributed by Lukas

In today’s video, I clarify my views on the topic of talking to your partner about their past. I also share a few insights if you’re seeking to be...

BEFORE You Break Up Because of Retroactive Jealousy, Watch This [VIDEO]

05 May 2022

Contributed by Lukas

In today’s video, I talk about how to handle it when the “red flags” in your partner’s past (or present) indicate you’re not a good match mo...

Top-3 Retroactive Jealousy Questions EVERY Sufferer Should Ask [VIDEO]

02 May 2022

Contributed by Lukas

In today’s video, I’m going to share three questions that I believe every retroactive jealousy sufferer should ask themselves at least once. Read ...

“What if My Girlfriend is LYING About Her Past?” Q & A [VIDEO]

28 Apr 2022

Contributed by Lukas

In today’s video, I want to share a few thoughts for people who are bothered by their partner’s past, and wondering whether their partner is being...

Positive Masculinity vs. “Fake Alpha Males:” My Thoughts [VIDEO]

25 Apr 2022

Contributed by Lukas

In today’s video, I offer a bit of a warning to modern men to be wary of phony masculine role models in the world today. I want to share a few of my...

These Are SO Important: My Top “Green Flags” in Dating [VIDEO]

21 Apr 2022

Contributed by Lukas

In today’s video, I’m going to share my top “Green Flags” in dating–because looking only for “red flags” is not enough. Read on or watch...

Intrusive Thoughts About Your Partner’s Past: My #1 Technique [VIDEO]

18 Apr 2022

Contributed by Lukas

In today’s video, I want to share my #1 perspective for dealing with intrusive thoughts, how to overcome them, and how to start the process of rewir...

Men in the Red Pill: My #1 Message For You [VIDEO]

14 Apr 2022

Contributed by Lukas

In today’s video, I want to share my (gasp!) nuanced take on the “Red Pill” online men’s movement. And share a few thoughts for men who are “...

Retroactive Jealousy Course Testimonial: Listen to Guy’s Story [VIDEO]

11 Apr 2022

Contributed by Lukas

Retroactive Jealousy Course Testimonial: Listen to Guy's Story The post Retroactive Jealousy Course Testimonial: Listen to Guy’s Story [VIDEO] appea...

What is “Self-Acceptance?” A Politically-Incorrect Take [VIDEO]

07 Apr 2022

Contributed by Lukas

In today’s video, I’m going to offer my answer to the question “What is self-acceptance?” and how this is related to overcoming retroactive je...

Boundaries and Values in Relationships: A Simple Explainer [VIDEO]

04 Apr 2022

Contributed by Lukas

In today’s video, I want to offer some thoughts about boundaries and values in relationships. I want to share a couple of ways of thinking about bou...

Get Started Overcoming Retroactive Jealousy: Here’s How [VIDEO]

31 Mar 2022

Contributed by Lukas

In today’s video, I’m going to talk about where you can start with my work if you’re ready to get serious about beating retroactive jealousy for...

The Truth About Retroactive Jealousy: STOP Doing This [VIDEO]

28 Mar 2022

Contributed by Lukas

In today’s video, I’m going to talk about the “flipside” of taking proactive steps to beat retroactive jealousy, and how identifying what NOT ...

“How Do I Stop Blaming My Partner for Retroactive Jealousy?” [VIDEO]

24 Mar 2022

Contributed by Lukas

In today’s video, I’m going to respond to a viewer’s question of what to do when we feel like other people “makes us feel” a certain way. Re...

Freedom From Retroactive Jealousy: Listen to Toni’s Story [VIDEO]

21 Mar 2022

Contributed by Lukas

In today’s video, I had an inspiring conversation with Toni, a retroactive jealousy survivor. Read or watch below to hear Toni’s retroactive jealo...

Retroactive Jealousy and “Anti-Fragility:” This is Your Opportunity [VIDEO]

17 Mar 2022

Contributed by Lukas

In today’s video, I’m going to share my ideas about anti-fragility, how it’s different from mere resilience, and how it’s directly related to ...

Relationship Red Flags: What I Watch Out For [VIDEO]

14 Mar 2022

Contributed by Lukas

In today’s video, I’m going to share my personal views about “relationship red flags;” things that I look out for when considering a long-term...

Retroactive Jealousy Definition: DON’T Get It Wrong [VIDEO]

10 Mar 2022

Contributed by Lukas

In today’s video, I’m going to share my own definition of retroactive jealousy, and help to clear this up a bit. Read on or watch below to learn m...

Message for Retroactive Jealousy Sufferers: You NEED To Hear This [VIDEO]

07 Mar 2022

Contributed by Lukas

In today’s video, I’m going to share an important message about retroactive jealousy that every retroactive jealousy sufferer needs to hear. Read ...

Retroactive Jealousy Goals: How to Get Clarity and Motivation [VIDEO]

03 Mar 2022

Contributed by Lukas

In today’s video, I’m going to talk about how you can define and specify the goal of beating retroactive jealousy for good as soon as possible. Re...

“My Girlfriend’s Number is Too Much To Handle:” Think About This [VIDEO]

28 Feb 2022

Contributed by Lukas

In today’s video, I’m going to share a way to reframe the question, “Does the number of people my girlfriend had sex with matter?” Hopefully, ...

How to Stop Retroactive Jealousy: “Begin With a Win” [VIDEO]

24 Feb 2022

Contributed by Lukas

In today’s video, I’m going to share some big lessons that I learned over the past year. I’m also going to talk about how this can help you beat...

My Antidote to Retroactive Jealousy: Listen to This [VIDEO]

21 Feb 2022

Contributed by Lukas

In today’s video, I’m going to share a few perspectives about struggling with retroactive jealousy if you’re living in the Western world in the ...

Retroactive Jealousy Recovery: What Does It Feel Like? [VIDEO]

17 Feb 2022

Contributed by Lukas

In today’s video, I’m going to talk about what it’s like to overcome retroactive jealousy and whether or not retroactive jealousy is still an is...

Retroactive Jealousy Survivors: 5 Key Lessons from Last Year [VIDEO]

14 Feb 2022

Contributed by Lukas

In today’s video, I’m going to share my top-5 lessons from the past year for retroactive jealousy survivors. Watch the video below, or read below ...

Tips for Retroactive Jealousy Triggers: These Really Help [VIDEO]

10 Feb 2022

Contributed by Lukas

In today’s video, I’m going to share three practical, simple tips that you can use to start dealing with retroactive jealousy triggers. Watch or r...

Male Retroactive Jealousy Sufferers: DON’T Make This Mistake [VIDEO]

07 Feb 2022

Contributed by Lukas

In today’s video, I’m going to talk about a social trend, a unique challenge among male retroactive jealousy sufferers, which is only getting wors...

Overcoming Intrusive Jealous Thoughts: Remember This [VIDEO]

03 Feb 2022

Contributed by Lukas

In today’s video, I’m going to talk about how remembering that I’m “crazy” helps me stay sane. Watch the video below for a counterintuitive ...

Dealing with Jealous Thoughts: A Strange, Effective Technique [VIDEO]

31 Jan 2022

Contributed by Lukas

In today’s video, I’m going to share a bizarre but effective technique for getting through things like obsessive and retroactive jealousy. So: wha...

The #1 Retroactive Jealousy Lie: You CANNOT Believe It [VIDEO]

27 Jan 2022

Contributed by Lukas

In today’s video, I’m going to share the number one lie that most retroactive jealousy sufferers tell themselves at least once a day. So: what is ...

“My Husband Has Retroactive Jealousy… And It Destroyed Us” [VIDEO]

24 Jan 2022

Contributed by Lukas

In today’s video, I’m going to share a painful lesson that at least one retroactive jealousy sufferer is currently learning. How does it feel if y...

Meditation for Beating Jealousy: DON’T Believe These Myths [VIDEO]

20 Jan 2022

Contributed by Lukas

In today’s video, I’m going to talk about the virtues and benefits of meditation. I’m also going to dispel some of the myths around meditation. ...

Retroactive Jealousy Testimonial: Simon’s Story [VIDEO]

17 Jan 2022

Contributed by Lukas

In today’s video, I had a revealing and inspiring conversation with Simon, a retroactive jealousy survivor. Read or watch below to hear Simon’s re...

Retroactive Jealousy Books for Men: My Top-5 List [VIDEO]

13 Jan 2022

Contributed by Lukas

In today’s video, I’m going to recommend five books which I believe every male retroactive jealousy sufferer should read. So: what are my top-5 re...

“Tell My Girlfriend About Retroactive Jealousy?” My Response [VIDEO]

10 Jan 2022

Contributed by Lukas

In today’s video, I’m going to respond to a viewer who’s struggling with how much he should tell his partner about his retroactive jealousy, and...

Yearly Review Practice: How To Conduct One For Yourself [VIDEO]

06 Jan 2022

Contributed by Lukas

In today’s video, I’m going to talk about my yearly review process. I’m going to show you exactly how to do one for yourself and how this can he...

Get Over Your Partner’s Past Fast Testimonial: Nolan’s Story [VIDEO]

03 Jan 2022

Contributed by Lukas

In today’s video, we’re going to hear from Nolan, who struggled with intense retroactive jealousy, and how my course, Get Over Your Partner’s Pa...

Causes of Retroactive Jealousy: Ever Think About This One? [VIDEO]

23 Dec 2021

Contributed by Lukas

In today’s video, I’m going to talk about the number one mistake people make when they fall in love, particularly younger people. And that is: spe...

“Should I Lower My Dating Standards?” My Opinion [VIDEO]

20 Dec 2021

Contributed by Lukas

In today’s video, I’m going to the questions: “What happens if you’re out there in the dating world, and you’ve found out that the world is ...

How to Avoid Irrational Jealousy: My #1 Tip [VIDEO]

16 Dec 2021

Contributed by Lukas

In today’s video, I’m going to share a crucial message to set the tone for your relationship as early as possible to minimize the odds of chaos, d...

Stoic Philosophy for Overcoming Jealousy: 8 CRUCIAL Lessons [VIDEO]

13 Dec 2021

Contributed by Lukas

In today’s video, I’m going to talk about a post by the Daily Stoic, featuring eight lessons that will help you overcome retroactive jealousy. So:...

Trust Issues in a Relationship: How to Work Through Them [VIDEO]

09 Dec 2021

Contributed by Lukas

In today’s video, I’m responding to a viewer who is struggling with trust issues and wants some advice on how to get started working through these...

“Snooping Through My Partner’s Phone:” How to Stop [VIDEO]

06 Dec 2021

Contributed by Lukas

In today’s video, I wanted to respond to a question: “How do I resist the urge to snoop through my partner’s phone?” So: how do you stop snoop...

Start Beating Retroactive Jealousy: Listen to This [VIDEO]

02 Dec 2021

Contributed by Lukas

In today’s video, I will share a very important message for anyone who’s on the fence about getting started putting in the work toward overcoming ...

“Male Simping:” What It Is, and Why It’s So Toxic [VIDEO]

29 Nov 2021

Contributed by Lukas

In today’s video, I’m going to talk about a male phenomenon that I see all around me. I’m going to share a message that I think a lot of guys re...

Retroactive Jealousy and Personal Development: Your Journey [VIDEO]

25 Nov 2021

Contributed by Lukas

In today’s video, I’m going to share what comes after retroactive jealousy for those of us who actually work our way through it. So: how should yo...

How Young Men Can Find Purpose: My #1 Tip [VIDEO]

22 Nov 2021

Contributed by Lukas

In today’s video, I’m going to share an idea that gave me a lot of clarity, meaning, and purpose in my life where previously some of that meaning ...

Perspective for Overcoming Retroactive Jealousy: Consider This [VIDEO]

18 Nov 2021

Contributed by Lukas

In today’s video, I’m going to share one of my all-time favorite perspectives in life that helps me stay grounded, overcome retroactive jealousy, ...

Partner’s Character In Question? Think About This [VIDEO]

15 Nov 2021

Contributed by Lukas

In today’s video, I’m going to share my number one tip for anyone trying to assess anyone’s character. Zachary Stockill: A lot of people who com...

Retroactive Jealousy Community: Why It’s So Valuable [VIDEO]

11 Nov 2021

Contributed by Lukas

In today’s video, I’m going to share two often overlooked recipes for healing from retroactive jealousy. So: why could your own retroactive jealou...

Bad Day With Retroactive Jealousy? Listen to This… [VIDEO]

08 Nov 2021

Contributed by Lukas

In today’s video, I’m going to talk about how to handle the advanced stages of overcoming retroactive jealousy when you encounter “bumps in the ...

“Should Guys Watch Porn?” A Nuanced Perspective [VIDEO]

04 Nov 2021

Contributed by Lukas

In today’s video, I’m going to explore pornography in-depth and provide some food for thought when you’re struggling with intrusive thoughts and...

Overcoming Intrusive Thoughts: One Way To “Label” Them [VIDEO]

01 Nov 2021

Contributed by Lukas

In today’s video, I’m going to share one of my favourite ways to think about retroactive jealousy. So: how to start overcoming intrusive thoughts?...

Retroactive Jealousy is an Opportunity (Yes, Really) [VIDEO]

28 Oct 2021

Contributed by Lukas

In today’s video, I’m going to prove to you that if you’re struggling with retroactive or obsessive jealousy, it’s actually a blessing in disg...

“Asking About My Partner’s Past:” What’s the Right Method? [VIDEO]

25 Oct 2021

Contributed by Lukas

In today’s video, I’m going to share why it’s usually a bad idea to ask your partner endless questions about their past. So, why is it important...

“Desire to Control My Partner:” How Do You Let it Go? [VIDEO]

21 Oct 2021

Contributed by Lukas

In today’s video, I’m responding to a viewer who’s struggling to let go of the urge to control her partner. I’m going to suggest some alternat...

Framework for Overcoming Retroactive Jealousy: What Works? [VIDEO]

18 Oct 2021

Contributed by Lukas

In today’s video, I’m going to share another 80/20 rule, and if you’re struggling with retroactive or obsessive jealousy, this is going to be us...

Retroactive Jealousy Fear: The #1 Step in Overcoming It [VIDEO]

14 Oct 2021

Contributed by Lukas

In today’s video, I’m going to share a quote by Einstein that represents one of my all-time favorite universal solutions for retroactive jealousy....

Partner’s Past Values: How to Assess Them? [VIDEO]

11 Oct 2021

Contributed by Lukas

In today’s video, I’m going to tell you my number one tip for how to know whether you’re struggling with irrational retroactive jealousy or a ge...

What To Do After a Breakup: The #1 Step to Start Healing [VIDEO]

08 Oct 2021

Contributed by Lukas

In today’s video, I’d like to share the number one step you should take after you break up. So, what to do after a breakup? Zachary Stockill: I’...

Your Questions Answered: YouTube Livestream #2 [VIDEO]

06 Oct 2021

Contributed by Lukas

Yesterday, I hosted my second YouTube livestream where I took all kinds of interesting subscriber questions. Although the questions were mainly concer...

What I’ve Learned as the “Retroactive Jealousy Guy” for 8+ Years [VIDEO]

30 Sep 2021

Contributed by Lukas

In today’s video, I’m going to offer a bit of tough love to anyone struggling with retroactive or obsessive jealousy. And share some insight as to...

Irrational Jealousy or Intuition? 5 Tips to Know the Difference [VIDEO]

27 Sep 2021

Contributed by Lukas

In today’s video, I’m going to share five tips that will help you get better in touch with your intuition and gut. So: how should you handle your ...

Casual Sex and Retroactive Jealousy: Will More Sex Help? [VIDEO]

20 Sep 2021

Contributed by Lukas

In today’s video, I’m going to respond to a retroactive jealousy sufferer, who’s confused about her boyfriend’s past in hookup culture. She’...

Relationship Standards: What They Are, and Why They Matter [VIDEO]

16 Sep 2021

Contributed by Lukas

In today’s video, we will learn why is it so important to have standards in your dating life, particularly for anyone struggling with retroactive je...

Suffering From Retroactive Jealousy? This Can REALLY Help [VIDEO]

13 Sep 2021

Contributed by Lukas

In today’s video, I’m going to talk about “the cost of doing business,” and how this concept applies to things like obsessive jealousy, and re...

How to Cure Retroactive Jealousy: Go Beyond “Just the Tips” [VIDEO]

09 Sep 2021

Contributed by Lukas

In today’s video, I’m going to tell you what to do if you’re struggling with retroactive jealousy, obsessive jealousy, or any other kind of emot...

Escape Intrusive Thoughts: A Weird (But Effective) Technique [VIDEO]

02 Sep 2021

Contributed by Lukas

In today’s video, I’m going to share a very unusual technique for dealing with any kind of unwanted intrusive thoughts. So how to escape intrusive...

Retroactive Jealousy and Pornography: How to Handle It? Q & A [VIDEO]

30 Aug 2021

Contributed by Lukas

In today’s video, I’m responding to a viewer who is worried about her partner viewing pornography. How to handle retroactive jealousy and pornogra...

How to Choose The Right Partner: The Most Important Step [VIDEO]

26 Aug 2021

Contributed by Lukas

In today’s video, I’m going to share a superpower that you should cultivate that will help you avoid 99% of drama and chaos in your relationships....

Staying Motivated Beating Jealousy: How To Get Started [VIDEO]

23 Aug 2021

Contributed by Lukas

In today’s video, I’m going to talk about how to get started getting momentum when it comes to any kind of personal development project, and how t...

Overcoming Retroactive Jealousy Triggers: Some Practical Tips [VIDEO]

19 Aug 2021

Contributed by Lukas

In today’s video, I’m going to answer an email from a retroactive jealousy sufferer, who’s worried their partner had sex in the house that he no...

Get Over Retroactive Jealousy: Will Breaking Up Help? [VIDEO]

16 Aug 2021

Contributed by Lukas

In today’s video, I’m going to talk about what you should do if you broke up with your partner because of retroactive jealousy. Maybe you’re won...

Retroactive Jealousy and Sex: A Strange Way to Think About It [VIDEO]

12 Aug 2021

Contributed by Lukas

In today’s video, I’m going to talk about retroactive jealousy and sex. So, what is a good way to start thinking about retroactive jealousy and se...

Retroactive Jealousy Cycle: How to Start Breaking Free [VIDEO]

09 Aug 2021

Contributed by Lukas

In today’s video, I’m going to talk about how to break free from the various vicious cycles associated with retroactive jealousy. For anyone who h...

Exhausted by Retroactive Jealousy? Give This a Try… [VIDEO]

05 Aug 2021

Contributed by Lukas

In today’s video, I’m going to share what I believe to be one of the secrets of life that will help you overcome retroactive jealousy. So: what sh...

Getting Over Retrospective Jealousy: There IS a Silver Lining [VIDEO]

02 Aug 2021

Contributed by Lukas

In today’s video, I’m going to talk about the best part of retroactive jealousy. So, how can you stay motivated getting over retrospective jealous...

“Jealousy of Partner’s Past: How to Not Compare..?” Q & A [VIDEO]

29 Jul 2021

Contributed by Lukas

In today’s video, I’m going to answer another viewer’s question about retroactive jealousy and FOMO. How to overcome jealousy of partner’s pas...

Jealousy OCD: How Can You Start Beating It for Good? [VIDEO]

26 Jul 2021

Contributed by Lukas

In today’s video, I’m going to share one of my all-time favorite quotes and favorite practices for overcoming any kind of jealousy, particularly, ...

Men With Retroactive Jealousy: This Message Is For You [VIDEO]

22 Jul 2021

Contributed by Lukas

In today’s video, video I’m going to share an important message for male jealousy sufferers. Men with retroactive jealousy: how do you deal with i...

Retrospective Jealousy Cure: Don’t Make This Crucial Mistake [VIDEO]

19 Jul 2021

Contributed by Lukas

In today’s video, I’m going to talk about a dangerous pitfall that you should avoid as you work to overcome retroactive jealousy. So, what are the...

“Questions About My Partner’s Past:” How to Handle Them? [VIDEO]

15 Jul 2021

Contributed by Lukas

In today’s video, I’m answering a reader email from Fabian. So, what should you do if you’re struggling with “questions about my partner’s p...

Retroactive Jealousy Break Up: Is It a Good Idea? [VIDEO]

12 Jul 2021

Contributed by Lukas

In today’s video, I’m going to answer a question relating to whether or not you should break up with your partner to overcome retroactive jealousy...

“When Should I Leave a Toxic Relationship?” Q & A [VIDEO]

09 Jul 2021

Contributed by Lukas

In today’s video, I’m answering a question from Jake. “When’s the right time to leave a toxic relationship?” Jake writes.. When do you know ...

“Are Relationship Breaks Healthy?” Q & A [VIDEO]

07 Jul 2021

Contributed by Lukas

In today’s video, I’m answering an email from Monica. A reader wonders: are relationship breaks healthy? Monica writes Are breaks good for both pa...

“Help! My Boyfriend Still Talks To His Ex…” Q & A [VIDEO]

05 Jul 2021

Contributed by Lukas

In today’s video, I’m going to discuss the very tricky issue of what to do when your partner is keeping in touch with their ex. What are the right...

How To Set Better Goals: Avoid These Two Mistakes [VIDEO]

02 Jul 2021

Contributed by Lukas

In today’s video, I’m going to share what I believe are the two biggest mistakes that people make when they set goals. So, how to set better goals...

“My Girlfriend Keeps Talking About Her Ex:” What To Do [VIDEO]

30 Jun 2021

Contributed by Lukas

In today’s video, I’m bringing you another Q&A video. We’re going to learn what to do when your girlfriend keeps talking about her ex. Garrett w...

“Does My Girlfriend’s ‘Number’ Matter?” Q & A [VIDEO]

28 Jun 2021

Contributed by Lukas

In today’s video, I’m answering a question that I get on a surprisingly regular basis. “Does my girlfriend’s number matter?” In a sense, the...