They Talk Sex

The Somatic Pleasure Episode

16 Mar 2026

Contributed by Lukas

Our guest is a male provider of touch to women clients. He has worked as a surrogate partner, coach and more. Let's talk about clients, and attachment...

The Brothel Discussions Episode

09 Mar 2026

Contributed by Lukas

Miss M has worked in sex in a variety of ways, but never a brothel. Let’s talk about the pros and cons of sugaring, escorting, companion and dominat...

The Pornmaker and Intimacy Episode

17 Feb 2026

Contributed by Lukas

Sinn Sage is an an Adult Video Hall of Famer, who offers reflections and advice for people who want to make their own materials and seek to understand...

The Girl Sex and Storytelling Episode

03 Feb 2026

Contributed by Lukas

This is a pleasure-centric episode! Learn some tips for pleasing people with vulvas, and get an insider’s idea of different ways to play. Allison Mo...

The Weird History and Sexuality Episode 2

11 Jan 2026

Contributed by Lukas

Kaytlin Bailey is a comedian and former escort who founded a nonprofit organization that uses storytelling to advocate for human rights. She produces ...

The Female Pain and Pleasure Episode

23 Dec 2025

Contributed by Lukas

Suzannah Weiss is an American sexologist and author of “Eve’s Blessing”, which discusses how people with vulvas can lead pleasurable lives in a ...

The ASK US ANYTHING - SEX EDUCATOR EPISODE 3

08 Dec 2025

Contributed by Lukas

Your questions on STIs, dating, and pleasure, answered by Mariah Caudillo of @TheSexedFiles of IG. She's worked in schools for a decade and is an onli...

The Veteran Strippers Episode

16 Nov 2025

Contributed by Lukas

Phoenix Rising met your host as a newbie stripper in the previous decade -  and she rejoins Elle to reflect in the podcast, years later. What has...

The Silver Sexuality Episode 2

28 Oct 2025

Contributed by Lukas

Not your average grandma…better! Ruby Lynne of The Granny Panty podcast started sex work at the age of fifty three and today she’s a prolific medi...

The Safer Slut aka Herpes 3 Episode

06 Oct 2025

Contributed by Lukas

Tricia Wise is a full time herpes educator and visual artist, and we talk about how to be a safer slut, and stay happier while being mentally ill. Get...

The Anxiety and Relationships Episode 2

22 Sep 2025

Contributed by Lukas

Are you feeling stressed out more often than feels normal? Let’s hear from our guest and therapist Carolanne Marcantonio who offers some explanation...

Be Right Back! Summer to Fall Hiatus

09 Sep 2025

Contributed by Lukas

Hey friends! I’m enjoying a two or three week break from publishing episodes, during this summer-to-fall transition. I’d love to hear your feedbac...

The Policing and Sex Work Episode

25 Aug 2025

Contributed by Lukas

Did you know that violence against people in the adult industries is a common type of police misconduct? Our guest and journalist Isidoro Rodriguez un...

The Trauma Healing and Sexuality Episode 2

18 Aug 2025

Contributed by Lukas

Jae Tracy grew up through severe parental abuse and trafficking and is finally able to speak about her experiences, in order to bolster other survivor...

The Sex Worker Infighting and Solidarity Episode

05 Aug 2025

Contributed by Lukas

Leanne Lawson is an amateur adult content creator living in Canada who stumbled upon an online world of pro-fascism trans women(!) Let’s talk about ...

The Webcam and Sex Work Episode

21 Jul 2025

Contributed by Lukas

What can you learn from an online adult entertainer, YouTuber, and digital marketing professional? Misty Maven creates content for her subscription si...

The Attachment Trauma and Sexuality Episode

07 Jul 2025

Contributed by Lukas

Ready for some inner child work? Our guest was tired of talking about their traumatic incidents and was ready to feel better in their body and relatio...

The Book of Whoredom Episode

23 Jun 2025

Contributed by Lukas

Vada Everlove is a Certified DV Survivor’s Advocate and poet of erotica. She survived sexual abuse and grooming and discusses the connections betwee...

The Youth and Sex Education Episode

09 Jun 2025

Contributed by Lukas

Tara Jones is the founder and Executive Director of a small, grassroots non-profit called The Youth Sexpert Program. If you have kids or tweens or tee...

The Tales from the Strip Club Episode

02 Jun 2025

Contributed by Lukas

Kali is a longtime stripper and photographer based in California and can currently be found on IG’s @TalesfromtheStrip17.Let’s talk strip club cul...

The Sensible Sex Toys Episode

20 May 2025

Contributed by Lukas

How can we make better sex toys and for different bodies? Matty Hennesey of Eversense Toys explains how to find what you need - and creative uses for ...

The Perimenopause Episode

12 May 2025

Contributed by Lukas

Our sex education and self-help podcast is back and talking blood! Rebel-doctor Evelin Dacker returns to give advice and info about the periods of tim...

ASK US ANYTHING - Sex Worker Edition 2

17 Feb 2025

Contributed by Lukas

Elle and Valentine are friends and partners in life and the adult industry! We take your questions about dating, self care, sex and work. Thank you fo...

The Intimacy and Sexuality Episode

10 Feb 2025

Contributed by Lukas

How does intimacy relate to sex and self worth? Our guest has years of family and marriage therapy under her belt, and she runs the sex education prog...

The Hands-On Kink Episode

03 Feb 2025

Contributed by Lukas

What can hands do? Let’s talk with pleasure expert and coach Jennifer Rahner about kink and communication. Learn some basic tips and some safety pra...

The Brothel Keeping Episode 2

16 Dec 2024

Contributed by Lukas

Let’s talk with a European brothel manager: Catherine de Noire works the overnight shift in one of the biggest venues in her part of the world, and ...

The Sexuality and Mormon Influence Episode

25 Nov 2024

Contributed by Lukas

What's it like being a dominatrix to the devout AND to the de-constructing Mormons? Mx Novatrix serves and teaches in the SLC area of Utah, which is a...

The Portland Stripper and Author Episode

11 Nov 2024

Contributed by Lukas

Alexa Van danced in Portland stripclubs and wrote a novel one decade later - not as a memoir but as a way of processing alcoholism and unhealthy relat...

The God, Sex, and Rich People Episode

28 Oct 2024

Contributed by Lukas

Are you a current or former Christian still learning how to have guilt-free sex? Mattie Jo Cowsert is a recovering Evangelical who moved to New York C...

The Soft Cock Episode

21 Oct 2024

Contributed by Lukas

What does penis health have to do with heart health? A lot! Erica Leroye was a teacher and a lover when a tragic death led her to a new calling: teach...

The Stalking and Victim’s Advocate in Media Episode

30 Sep 2024

Contributed by Lukas

Lenora Claire was a business owner and public figure in Los Angeles before her stalker incidents led her to becoming a private investigator and media ...

The Working Guys Episode

23 Sep 2024

Contributed by Lukas

Jack Parker has been doing sex work since just before he was an adult, and he’s now a writer and publisher of an anthology of stories from other tra...

The Intimacy Coordinator and Film Episode

02 Sep 2024

Contributed by Lukas

If you’ve ever watched mainstream tv or movies with sex scenes in them, you can appreciate the people who make them look more realistic, while helpi...

The Sober Sex Work Episode

26 Aug 2024

Contributed by Lukas

Elizabeth Foreman works sober in New Orleans strip clubs these days. Here she shares her experience with sex work and sobriety which has given her ins...

The Purity Culture Drop-Out Episode

19 Aug 2024

Contributed by Lukas

Erica Smith is a sex educator specializing in purity culture trauma and recovery. Let’s talk about dealing with shame and some tips for better sexua...

The Sexual Objectification Episode

12 Aug 2024

Contributed by Lukas

Have you ever been made to feel like an object instead of a person? Do you objectify others? What does objectification mean, how can we take our power...

The Psilocybin and Sexuality Episode

29 Jul 2024

Contributed by Lukas

How can intentional psilocybin use help people heal from big life events, or create a better understanding of theirselves? Let’s talk with “trauma...

The Abortion Healthcare Episode

23 Jul 2024

Contributed by Lukas

What’s it like to go to a clinic to receive an abortion? Our guest has been escorting patients for years and talks about the science of medical abor...

The Amish Stripper Episode

01 Jul 2024

Contributed by Lukas

Naomi left the strict Amish at seventeen, and worked for twenty years in adult entertainment, and wrote an erotic memoir about that time. We talk abou...

The Sex Work and Political Organizing Episode

24 Jun 2024

Contributed by Lukas

Miss Mei is a political organizer in Miami Florida and talks sex work, explains what can help prevent trafficking and police abuse, and gives tips on ...

The Journalism and Sexuality Episode

17 Jun 2024

Contributed by Lukas

Mike Stabile is a journalist and documentary filmmaker and ol’ gay activist who has written about and advocated for sex workers and sexual speech fo...

The Trauma Healing and Sex Therapy Episode 2

10 Jun 2024

Contributed by Lukas

Born in India, neurodivergent, non monogamous, a New York sex therapist who loves sex-positive spaces, let’s talk healing with Nikita Fernandes MHC-...

The Pornographer and Cuckolding Episode

03 Jun 2024

Contributed by Lukas

He’s telling his life story besides the two random events that led to him working in the xxx industry as a Bull in the cuckold scene. “Thrash: “...

The Internet Pornmaking Episode 3

27 May 2024

Contributed by Lukas

Pomma is a xxx content creator who tirelessly informs followers on news, legislation, harm reduction practices, and hazards related to online sex work...

The Penis Augmentation Episode

20 May 2024

Contributed by Lukas

His nickname is The Dick Whisperer and he’s spent years perfecting his penis-injections services and science: Meet the founder of PhalloFill . Let’...

The Sexuality and Sports Episode

13 May 2024

Contributed by Lukas

She’s a model, full contact fighter and martial arts instructor, genderfluid princess and more: lets meet Sybilla Bakzaza.3:00 martial arts, basebal...

The Masturbation and Sexuality Episode

06 May 2024

Contributed by Lukas

Let’s explore the history behind masturbation misinformation, pseudoscience and shaming, with clinical psychologist and author Dr Eric Sprankle.3:00...

The Cuckolding and Dominatrix Episode

30 Oct 2023

Contributed by Lukas

Our last episode of this season and O what fun - let’s talk cuckolding!  Join Mistress Elle for a chat with her favorite cuckold and hear how h...

The Herpes and Relationships Episode 2

23 Oct 2023

Contributed by Lukas

We catch up with our fave herpes educator Courtney Brame for some updates and additional facts about a common virus that many of us live with, and Ell...

The Sex Work and Trauma Healing Episode

16 Oct 2023

Contributed by Lukas

A traumatic attack caused our guest to reframe how she was living her one life. She’s now chosen to work as an erotica writer, a legal courtesan in ...

The Lesbian Pornmaker Episode

09 Oct 2023

Contributed by Lukas

She’s been a top lesbian content creator on Youtube for a decade, now learn what’s next for Bria Kam after years of growing with her audience, and...

The Trans Healthcare Episode

02 Oct 2023

Contributed by Lukas

Have you ever seen healthcare providers who have no idea what you are experiencing personally? Lucie Fielding is a therapist, sex educator and writer ...

The Weird History and Sexuality Episode

25 Sep 2023

Contributed by Lukas

Let’s explore Oregon and and particularly Old Town Portland, which has its roots in racism, beer, gambling and sex work, and predatory policing. Thi...

The Brothelkeeping Episode

18 Sep 2023

Contributed by Lukas

Bella Cummins has owned her Nevada brothel for thirty-seven years and talks about venue management, what the regulations are like, and how to create a...

Ask Us Anything - Sex Educator Edition

04 Sep 2023

Contributed by Lukas

Do you have sex questions? She’s a Black sex educator who advocates for HIV prevention, sex toy exploration and straightforward communication: Ashle...

The Dominatrix Episode

28 Aug 2023

Contributed by Lukas

She’s a self-taught therapeutic dominatrix and touch provider, who specializes in helping people play and explore boundaries and kinks. Meet Lara th...

The BoySlut Episode

21 Aug 2023

Contributed by Lukas

Let’s talk about male bisexuality, biphobia, role-modeling mental health and have a raunchy, fun time with Zachary Zane. He’s an advice writer and...

The Sex Work and Relationships Episode

14 Aug 2023

Contributed by Lukas

What are your personal ethics around sex work and matrimony? Why do some people share their interactions with spouses and other people hide them? How ...

The ADHD and Sexuality Episode

07 Aug 2023

Contributed by Lukas

Who else has ADHD? Our guest noticed a lack of sexuality-related info for people with attention-deficit-hyperactivity-disorder. For two decades he has...

The Surrogate Partner Therapy Episode 2

31 Jul 2023

Contributed by Lukas

Why do some people pay others to teach them how to be sexual and intimate? Surrogate partners work with clients to learn their bodies and how to have...

The Stripping and Sexuality Episode

24 Jul 2023

Contributed by Lukas

Let’s talk with Leilah of A Stripper’s Guide about privacy issues and safety, queerness at the stripclub, and listen as she gives tips on setting ...

The Spirituality and Sexuality Episode 2

17 Jul 2023

Contributed by Lukas

How does spirituality and sexuality relate? It depends on who you are and what you believe. For this episode we talk sex and spells with guest Serena ...

The Silver Sexuality and Sex Work Episode

10 Jul 2023

Contributed by Lukas

Let’s talk about aging and sexuality with an elder provider and playwright. Charla Hathaway became “a whore at fifty-four”, and she shares some ...

The Sexuality and Cancel Culture Episode

26 Jun 2023

Contributed by Lukas

How does social standing relate to sexuality and dating? Have you ever been ostracized for reasons unclear, or been targeted in a smear campaign? Lice...

The Sexuality and Pornmaker Episode

19 Jun 2023

Contributed by Lukas

She came, she saw, she conquered pornmaking and media: meet Joanna Angel and learn what her work and married life is like as a longtime porn icon of o...

The Autism and Sexuality Episode

12 Jun 2023

Contributed by Lukas

What’s it like for Stoney Faye to be an autistic stripper and parent? Let’s talk about the intersections of disability and sex work, and swap some...

The Sex Work in Film Episode

05 Jun 2023

Contributed by Lukas

Let’s speak to Aja Corynn who made the documentary film “Pleasers”. Our guest applies her anthropological background and creative lenses to her ...

The StripClub and Security Episode

29 May 2023

Contributed by Lukas

Nate Hazen is a certified bouncer in the state of Oregon and works in downtown Portland. Meet your host’s coworker and listen as we swap stories and...

The Disability and Sexuality Episode

22 May 2023

Contributed by Lukas

How might one person manage their co-occurring chronic illnesses and disabilities, and have a fulfilling sex life? Meet Katherine Harlow the Park Aven...

The Sexuality and Catholicism Episode

14 May 2023

Contributed by Lukas

What might healthy spirituality and sexuality look like for Catholics? Let’s meet Sister Shannon who specializes in pleasure and shame-less educatio...

The Androgyny and Masculinity Episode

08 May 2023

Contributed by Lukas

Tom-boys, dykes, butch females, masc4masc, men, and more: how do nonbinary , cis men, and masculine-leaning people experience our world? It’s a spec...

The Curvy Sex and Pornmaker Episode

01 May 2023

Contributed by Lukas

April Flores is an award winning pornmaker with almost two decades of years of experience and knowledge about the adult film industries. We talk sex, ...

The Sexual Freedoms Episode 2

13 Nov 2022

Contributed by Lukas

Do you want to understand what human rights are at risk in the United States? How is social media censorship linked to facsism and reproductive care? ...

The Sexology and Therapy Episode

07 Nov 2022

Contributed by Lukas

Our guest is a non-judgemental therapy intern, sometimes-sex worker, cannabis educator, and sexuality educator. Danielle Simpson-Baker’s work is for...

The Pegging Book Episode

30 Oct 2022

Contributed by Lukas

Let’s talk about anal penetration with a strap-on! History, meaning and context around a popular and hot-button activity, enjoyed by people of all g...

The Anti-Sex Trafficking Episode 2

23 Oct 2022

Contributed by Lukas

Camille* was a college kid who met a man that changed her life in a very bad way, and she tells how manipulation, isolation, and physical abuse entrap...

The Vaginal Health and Irritation Episode

17 Oct 2022

Contributed by Lukas

Does the stuff you bought at the grocery store burn your genitals? Ever forgotten a tampon up there? Learn some tips for vulva and vaginal health, and...

The Anxiety and Non-Monogamy Episode

10 Oct 2022

Contributed by Lukas

We take another dive into discussing common barriers to communication and relationship security with writer Lola Phoenix, who has been navigating this...

The Jealousy and Monogamy Episode

02 Oct 2022

Contributed by Lukas

No matter what your current relationship structure-of-choice is, conflict and communication around trust and jealousy can be challenging. I asked one ...

The Pain and Pleasure Episode

26 Sep 2022

Contributed by Lukas

Timestamps:What do we mean when we say something “hurts so good”? Let’s talk about pain and pleasure with author Leigh Cowart, who wrote a book ...

The Sex Work in History Episode

11 Sep 2022

Contributed by Lukas

LK Bertram teaches us about madams, clients, birth control and more as it relates to sex work in colonized North America. Learn how history often repe...

The Anti-Racism Sex Education Episode

05 Sep 2022

Contributed by Lukas

Clinical sexologist, African-centered social worker and self-liberation teacher speaks to us about her theories, frameworks and ideas, meet Dr. Zelaik...

The Trans Internet-Pornmaking Episode

29 Aug 2022

Contributed by Lukas

Carta Monir is a trans girl pornmaker who explains why a lot of her material is forbidden on some of the most popular and watched platforms, as we tal...

The Cannabis and Sexuality Episode

22 Aug 2022

Contributed by Lukas

How might weed relate to sex and arousal? Let’s learn history, tips, and pleasure practices from the Cannasexual, Ashley Manta.2:00 from DARE kid to...

The Spirituality and Sexuality Episode

15 Aug 2022

Contributed by Lukas

A former pastor speaks to her experiences in the church, and how it shaped her current online pornmaking and coaching businesses she’s growing today...

The Parenting and Sexuality Episode

08 Aug 2022

Contributed by Lukas

How to talk about safety and hygiene? Masturbation? Learn from an expert in communication and teaching for kids and youth, Dr. Tina Schermer Sellers.1...

The Sexual Freedoms Episode

01 Aug 2022

Contributed by Lukas

America is not the land of sexual freedoms and the Executive Director of NCSFreedom.org explains how people lose jobs, child custody, housing and more...

The Sex Lives of African Women Episode

25 Jul 2022

Contributed by Lukas

Our guest Nana Darkoa Sekyiamah collected the stories of African women from all over the globe for years in a blog before she released her book on “...

The Ask a Submissive Episode

19 Jul 2022

Contributed by Lukas

Lina Dune is a bisexual submissive in a 24/7 Dom/sub relationship and she is a proponent of healing-BDSM. Meet the web’s @askasub and receive advice...

The Surrogate Partner Therapy Episode

05 Jul 2022

Contributed by Lukas

Would you pay someone to teach you how to be sexual and intimate? Some people do! Surrogate partners work with clients to learn their bodies and how t...

The Retired Stripper Episode

27 Jun 2022

Contributed by Lukas

You may know her comics, art, or stripper-social media: listen how Jacqueline Frances is adapting to a new and divorced life after stripping.1:00 I lo...

The Sex Work and Discrimination Episode

20 Jun 2022

Contributed by Lukas

Nikki Gilliland was kicked out of college, ostracized by her town, and had her children taken away after her professor decided to target her for her d...

The Man Stripper Episode

13 Jun 2022

Contributed by Lukas

Your host interviews Chicago entertainer Ben Krane about his work and experiences in stripping, gogo-dancing, and internet content creation. 3:00...

The Ethics and Sexuality Episode

06 Jun 2022

Contributed by Lukas

How can we do sex and life more ethically? We take common questions with Margaret King, LPC of attunementpsychotherapy.com1:00 meet your guest3:00 why...

The Cis Men’s Issues Episode

30 May 2022

Contributed by Lukas

Ejaculation issues, stamina, performance anxiety, aggression and shame, learn from Australia’s leading male sexologist Cam Fraser on how to have a b...

The Trauma and Sex Therapy Episode

08 Feb 2022

Contributed by Lukas

Finding a good therapist, partner-dynamics, kink, embodiment, sensory issues, and conscious relationships: Katherine Friedman, LPC has expert guidance...

The Lube and Vaginal Health Episode

01 Feb 2022

Contributed by Lukas

Let’s learn about lube! GoodCleanLove owner Wendy Strgar and I talk a little history, some science, and hear feedback on why people love or loathe u...

The Trans Issues and Kink Episode

24 Jan 2022

Contributed by Lukas

Let’s get elbow deep in complex topics like kink, neurodiversity, trauma healing and trans gender issues. Writer cosima bee concordia aka “Bimbo T...

The Internet Pornmaking Episode 2

17 Jan 2022

Contributed by Lukas

Why do some people enjoy making visual erotica? How does censorship of consensual sex make it harder to address human trafficking? What can porn teach...

Ask a Doctor - Sexual Health Edition Episode

10 Jan 2022

Contributed by Lukas

Got sexual health questions? Primary care physician and consent educator Dr Evelin Dacker has information and tips for people of all ages.Timestamps:&...