Vada Everlove is a Certified DV Survivor’s Advocate and poet of erotica. She survived sexual abuse and grooming and discusses the connections between purity culture, misogyny and abuse. We reframe some bad narratives and talk connections between polyamory and trauma-healing.3:00 17 and 30 years old 8:00 some symptoms of CPTSD10:00 vaginismus and vulvodynia13:00 numbing your vagina with lidocaine15:00 pleasure after abuse17:00 anatomy and consent for kids 19:00 @ BookofWhoredom - our guest on IG22:00 Sponsored by Netherlandswax.com24:00 maintaining sanity while online 27:00 more on that ^30:00 dating after escaping that35:00 polyamory and feminism relating 38:00 tradwife fantasy42:00 Sponsored by InstituteforSexuality.com45:00 Trump proposed birth bonus49:00 a poem reading53:00 afraid to fall in love with more than one person57:00 a few of our favorite things, cucking and gay boysThis episode was sponsored by our friends at NetherlandsWax.com and InstituteForSexuality.comSee Elle’s $1 Behind-The-Scenes at Patreon.com/strangebedfellowsPlease rate and review this podcast :)

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