The people everyone leans on often have nobody to lean on themselves. For many people, especially women, caregivers, healthcare professionals, and those raised in cultures where responsibility is expected rather than acknowledged, the pressure to be the dependable one never stops. The invisible load of managing everyone else's needs can become so normal that we don't recognize the toll it's taking on our own health. In this episode of the Uncover Your Eyes Podcast, Dr. Meenal Agarwal explores the hidden physical and mental health consequences of always being "the strong one." Drawing from her own recent experience, Dr. Meenal shares the moment she unexpectedly broke down while speaking with a teacher, and what it revealed about the invisible burden carried by so many people who appear to have it all together. You'll learn why chronic stress, emotional labor, caregiving, and constant responsibility can quietly reshape your nervous system, impact your mental health, and increase your risk of burnout, even when you're functioning at a high level. In this episode, you'll uncover: 🎧Why the strongest people often struggle in silence 🎧The surprising signs of burnout most people ignore 🎧Dr. Meenal's personal story of reaching a breaking point 🎧How chronic stress affects the brain, nervous system, and body 🎧Why guilt often accompanies rest, boundaries, and asking for help 🎧The hidden cost of emotional labor and caregiving 🎧Practical strategies to break the cycle of self-neglect 🎧How to support others without sacrificing your own health Whether you're a parent, healthcare professional, educator, entrepreneur, caregiver, or simply someone carrying more than everyone realizes, this episode will help you understand what's happening beneath the surface, and why taking care of yourself is not selfish. Join the waitlist for Dr. Meenal's upcoming book, Stuck in a Flat World: How Screens Rewire Our Brains, Spatial Awareness, and Sense of Safety, coming Fall 2026. At Uncover Your Eyes, Dr. Meenal Agarwal explores the powerful body–brain connection, revealing how vision, neuroscience, mental health, and preventive care intersect — empowering listeners to recognize early signals before they become diagnoses. 🎧 Tune in and join Dr. Meenal Agarwal as we reimagine what it means to be well in today's complex healthcare system. Because healing starts with understanding — and Uncovering Your Eyes. Subscribe to Uncover Your Eyes on your favorite podcast platform and YouTube, and learn more about Dr. Meenal on Instagram @Dr.MeenalAgarwal

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