Human Design has a lot to say about identity work, and about why the "picture your future self and attach to the vision" advice quietly falls apart for some people and clicks instantly for others. In this episode, Nicole starts with a client who watched a friend get real results from a carefully built five-year vision, tried to walk the same steps, and couldn't make herself feel any of it. The conclusion she jumped to is the one most of us jump to. Something must be wrong with me. There isn't. What's actually happening is the trap of watching someone's results, copying their exact process, and blaming yourself when it won't take. We all reach the same places by different roads, and the road that lit your friend up can be the precise thing that leaves you stuck. Nicole gets into the one thing in your Human Design chart that decides how this work is even supposed to go for you, and why the standard version of it can be the very reason you feel like you can't "attach" to what you want. If you've ever forced a vision and felt further from yourself instead of closer, this is the piece that explains it. To download the FREE Shift Your Identity, Claim Your Next Level Guide and get the prompts and questions to do your identity work in alignment with your own style of Human Design: DM Nicole the word SHIFT on Instagram: @nicolelainoofficial Or download it here: nicolelaino.com/shift To book a Human Design Foundation Reading, Business/Purpose Reading, or Relationship Reading with Nicole go to https://nicolelaino.com/human-design-readings Be sure to visit nicolelaino.com/podcastlinks for all of the current links to events, freebies, and more! If you enjoyed this week's episode, I'd so appreciate you doing a few things for me: Please subscribe to the podcast on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, or wherever you listen! Rate and review the podcast on Apple Podcasts. Tag me @nicolelainoofficial on your IG stories with a story of you listening to the podcast and I'll make sure to share your post! Chapters / timestamps 00:00 — Welcome, and the question that started this episode 01:00 — The client who couldn't attach to a friend's five-year vision 03:00 — The trap of copying someone's exact process, then blaming yourself 05:00 — The free guide built for this exact work 06:30 — Belief versus identity, and why change has to go deeper 09:00 — When identity lives in the people, places, and rooms you're in 13:00 — When identity is fixed until you consciously shift it 16:30 — Human Design in a seven-centered world, and where business strategy comes in 19:00 — Holding the vision loosely: this or something better 21:30 — The two directions identity work actually runs 23:00 — Closing, and where to get the guide

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