In William Carleton's 1845 County Tyrone, Mary Murray arrived at farmhouses in a crimson cloak carrying matrimonial schemes that would shape entire parishes. This professional matchmaker convinced Biddy Sullivan and Paddy M'Cabe they were each dying of love for the other—they married while both believing the other had lied, only discovering their genuine affection at the altar.Carleton's portrait reveals how matchmaking worked in pre-Famine rural Ireland, where marriage was economic survival and women like Mary wielded extraordinary power through social engineering. From her theatrical visits to farming families to her warnings against using a "blackfoot" spokesman in courtship, Mary operated as what Carleton called a "matrimonial incendiary"—setting romantic fires across the Irish countryside.This episode explores the economics of 19th century Irish marriage, the surprising agency women exercised through matchmaking, and the theatrical rituals that brought couples together. The tradition continues today at Lisdoonvarna's annual matchmaking festival.Features readings from "Tales and Sketches, Illustrating the Character, Usages, Traditions, Sports and Pastimes of the Irish Peasantry" by William Carleton (1845).

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