Welcome back to the BONUS round with Sarah Siegert. They get into the gritty details of successfully and intentionally building legit friendships. They talk about one of our favorite topics as TCK’s .. people pleasing and rejection. Thanks as always for listening in! Mike asks Sarah about a recent Telagraph article that she collaborated on about how people in mid-life can make new friends (1:10). She talks about the similar opportunity people at mid-life and expats have (4:00) and the ‘self-awareness’ necessary (5:30) and how coaches push that process forward. Change is not an enemy (8:00). How do people take actions? What steps do we take? (9:10) People pleasing is not one of them (12:00) :D. Mike provides a diatrib on his difficulties as a people pleasing TCK. Sarah unearths shattering news for us :D. We are on a journey as TCK’s forming boundaries (18:40), and Sarah weighs in on just being human, and we, TCK’s are indeed human, and our search is universal. What she says we need to focus on is paramount (23:00) to our ability to connect. Mike talks about his own struggle in this regard (25:00). Mike wants to know how we can be more intentional (26:40), Going beyond, “that’s it”. Learn how YOU can get help from Sarah (32:35). Sarah can specifically help someone interested in her coaching regime. She’s willing to work with anyone around the world. Connect with her with the following links: My Instagram and Linkedin My online course The perfect match - find your perfect match in 4 weeks My freebie Connection Compass - best places to find your perfect match

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