When did sex stop being playful? In this episode, we revisit the idea of sex as play—as an essential, creative form of adult connection. Just as children learn who they are through curiosity and play, adults need those same instincts to explore their sensual and sexual selves.We’ll talk about how fear, shame, and conditioning have made sexuality too serious—and how rediscovering playfulness can reconnect us to our bodies, our partners, and our joy. From exploring sensuality without performance to breaking rules that never served us, this conversation is an invitation to approach intimacy with curiosity, laughter, and self-discovery.This episode asks:Why do we associate play with childhood but not sex?How can curiosity make desire feel new again?What’s lost when pleasure becomes performance?How does shame silence our erotic creativity?If you’ve ever felt disconnected, bored, or “too serious” in bed, this is your reminder that play isn’t childish—it’s the language of freedom and aliveness.

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