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What can I say about this woman? Lu in Luland, AKA Lou Featherstone is a 50-something mom on a mission to help women of all ages unlock their potential and become as confident as they can be. Hence, the Self Love Revolution Tour! She is a founding member of the Zero F*s Club, a sex-positive movement that helps others grow old disgracefully!To do that, Lou is touring the WORLD in her beloved vintage Bluebird bus, busting myths about midlife and menopause along the way. After emigrating from the UK to Portland, Oregon, she found herself extremely unhappy, she’d lost touch with her sexy self. Through small groups of AMAZING women in Portland, and her incredible Instagram community, she began to speak out more, and soon rediscovered her own voice. That process led to two huge discoveries: first, she mastered solo sex, which changed her relationship with her body and was a huge part of re-finding her confidence. Second, it led her to feel less connected to her husband, and she made the incredibly difficult, but incredibly bold, decision to separate.At this time, she was a track-and-field tutor at a local high school, but they did not approve of her social media presence – so, naturally, she walked away and didn’t look back. Sustainable fashion is another HUGE passion of Lou’s, check out her Instagram to see her wild style. She has an array of fantastic clothes on her bus which she gives women permission to play with, involving a lot of fun and liberation. Every day she wakes up more in love with who she is. “I love myself more today than I did yesterday, and tomorrow I’ll love myself more than I do today.” And she’s a TEDX speaker – helping women find their roadmap to self-love. Rip up the rule book! Lou has reclaimed her joy.https://luinluland.com/ @luinlulandWarning – we swear a lot!This podcast is full of laugher, fun and outrageousness. This woman is so inspiring. Lou grew up in a vicarage and has worn many hats over the years – including heading up the PTA (yes, picture her with a clipboard, shaking things up). A major turning point came when she moved from the UK to the USA with her husband. It was there that she realised something was missing – and that it was time to make a radical change. That awakening was sparked when Lou realised the power of her vagina, vulva, orgasms, and menopause.For many women, menopause becomes a superpower – the moment they truly let go of societal limitations. Lou embraced this shift. She left her husband, bought a vintage bus, started a YouTube channel, launched an Instagram account, and hit the road across America, inspiring women everywhere to reclaim their joy. Today, she’s performing a one-woman show and running her own festival in August 2025 in the UK. If you get the chance, go and see her. She’s unforgettable. She has some brilliant quotes, besides the one in her bio. Here is another – “Give up on the destination. Embrace the journey.” What more can I say?