Upgraded Members get access to everything:SUMMARY:The transcript discusses strategies for women on how to engage with men, especially in situations where they feel there is "nothing to say or do." Here’s a concise summary of the key points:1. **Be Physical and Socially Engaged**: - When feeling stuck in conversation, shift your focus outward and engage with your surroundings or other people. - Men are generally attracted to women who are social and lively, so talking to others can also draw the man’s attention.2. **Utilize Your Environment**: - In social settings like bars or restaurants, take advantage of the friendly staff (bartenders, waiters, etc.) to initiate conversation, especially if there’s a lull with a man.3. **Prepare for Social Interaction**: - Consider participating in improv or similar classes to enhance your ability to engage in conversations creatively. This training helps you think on your feet and brings spontaneity to social interactions.4. **Embrace Non-Linear Conversation**: - Conversations don’t have to follow a logical flow. It’s perfectly acceptable to jump between topics or revisit previous discussions, allowing for a more dynamic interaction.5. **Authenticity is Key**: - Encourage being genuinely yourself instead of trying too hard or adopting a persona just to impress a man. True attractiveness stems from authenticity and uniqueness.6. **Overall Objective**: - The aim is to foster genuine connections by being yourself while engaging and staying social in mixed environments.This approach prioritizes comfort, creativity, and authenticity in social interactions, ultimately leading to more meaningful engagements. This is a public episode. If you'd like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit womenspsychology.substack.com/subscribe

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