Episode 19: Please Just Hold Me — A Conversation on Family Constellations and Healing with ShavastiWhat do clients really want?Beneath the stories, symptoms, and questions people bring to a session, is there a deeper longing?In this conversation, Shavasti shares his view that beneath many of the concerns clients bring lives a deeper request:"Please just hold me."Together we explore what it means to be held—not fixed or changed, but deeply met in our humanity.We talk about healing sentences, love as an invitation, the role of the facilitator, and what becomes possible when we no longer have to hold everything alone.Two powerful images stayed with me long after our conversation ended: being held and falling on the sword of truth—allowing life as it is to touch and open the heart.I hope you enjoy the conversation.© 2026 You, Me & the Family Tree Podcast. All rights reserved.

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