Episode 9: When the Facilitator Feels Lonelywith Bertold UlsamerPart four of a special five-part series with Bertold Ulsamer—author, teacher, and elder in the field of Family Constellations, and a direct student of Bert Hellinger.This episode speaks to anyone who holds space for others—therapists, facilitators, teachers, guides, and helping professionals. Together, we explore the loneliness that can arise from the role, the risk of burnout, and what supports us in staying grounded, human, and present in the work.Bertold and I reflect on the inner life of the facilitator, the roots of these challenges, and how doing our own work helps us stay resilient while holding space for others.This is one of my favorite conversations, and I warmly recommend it to anyone engaged in relational, therapeutic, or facilitation work.Guest: Bertold UlsamerHost: Iris ShahamBertold UlsamerWebsite: https://www.ulsamer.com/startseite/Email: [email protected] International Seminar (Bucharest)Men and Women – Love and Strugglehttps://bertold-ulsamer.ro/Digital CourseIntegrated Trauma Therapy (facilitated by Bertold Ulsamer)https://iris-savir.systeme.io/integrated-trma-therapyBooks by Bertold UlsamerHow to Heal Old Wounds and Draw New Strengthhttps://www.amazon.com/Heal-Wounds-Draw-Strength-Constellations-ebook/dp/B0DMSNFZLVMake Peace with Your Parentshttps://www.amazon.com/Make-Peace-Your-Parents-Reconciliation/dp/B08FP9R4TKYou, Me, and the Family TreeHost: Iris ShahamPodcast & Website: https://www.irisconstellations.com/podcastsEmail: [email protected]© 2025 All rights reserved.

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