一席英语·脱口秀：老外来了

美国男星出轨遭群嘲！被出轨后，西方人会选择离婚还是原谅？

29 Sep 2022

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主播：Selah | 翩翩歌曲： We'll Be the StarsRecently news broke that Adam Levine cheated on his wife with a model.美国明星亚当·莱文出轨了，他出轨的对象是一个influencer（网红），这事儿，在美国引起了轰动。在美国获赞最高的评论是：Still can't believe Adam Levine cheated on the gorgeous Behati, with a trashy influencer who's full of fillers.还是难以相信，Adam Levine背叛了那么漂亮的妻子Behati，出轨的对象竟然是一个满身都是fillers（填充物）的网红。Proves that no matter how pretty/hot/skinny you are, men will still cheat.Trash will always be trash.事实证明，不管你有多么漂亮、性感、苗条，男人总是会背叛。渣男永远都是渣男。Girls love yo self.女孩们，好好爱自己。不管国内还是国外，明星的公信力越来越差，出轨、嫖娼事件层出不穷，it’s getting more and more common。但是对于出轨这件事情，中西方的文化还是不太一样的。今天我们就来聊一下，美国的Cheating Phenomenon。*phenomenon /fəˈnɑ:mɪnən/ n. 现象1. 明星出轨很常见出轨这个词，在英语中是：cheat。用法：Adam Levine 出轨了：Adam Levine cheated on his wife.（欺骗了谁，用介词on）Adam Levine 出轨了一个网红：Adam Levine cheated on his wife with an influencer.（加出轨对象用with）婚外情：affair用法：Adam Levine有了婚外情：Adam Levine had an affair with an ifluebcer.*affair /əˈfer/ n. 婚外情It is not uncommon for celebrities to cheat. 无论国内国外，明星出轨、劈腿很常见。They have money, fame, and power to have anyone they want.美国娱乐圈明星，很多都出轨过，比如说：Tiger WoodsTristian Thompson and Khloe KardashianRihanna and A$AP Rocky有的有好多情妇，有的明星出轨的时候，their wife or girlfriend was pregnant(在妻子或女友的孕期)。美国以基督教立国，按照圣经教导的话，婚内出轨属于奸淫，十戒中有两条都在禁止这个。不可奸淫；不可贪恋人的房屋；也不可贪恋人的妻子。根据基督教的教义，you must be faithful to your wife。这些人的做法，违背了基督教的教义。*faithful/ˈfeɪθf(ə)l/ adj.忠实的2. 为什么出轨越来越常见原因一：People are less fond of the idea of commitment than previous generations.现在的西方人，比起他们的previous generations（前面的世代）来讲，不太看重commitment（承诺）了。*be fond of v. 喜爱*commitment/kəˈmɪtmənt/ n. 承诺*previous/ˈpriːviəs/ adj. 先前的*generation /ˌdʒenəˈreɪʃn/ n. 代另一个原因，the rise of the hookup culture（“勾搭文化”的兴起）has sucked the concept of chivalry（已经吞没了骑士精神），并且也严重地破坏了the process of getting to know a person out of a relationship（从一段关系中了解一个人的过程）。*hookupculture“勾搭文化”，是一种随性的性行为文化,不要求承诺,不要求进行情感连接,只是两个人看上眼了就可以进行亲密行为。*suck /sʌk/ v. 吞没*chivalry /ˈʃɪvəlri/ n. 骑士气概除了hookup culture，还有更离谱open relationships（开放式关系）。这种open relationships，就是说你们虽然是情侣，但彼此不是exclusive（专属的），你不专属于我，我也不专属于你，这种关系更像是一种gray area in relationships（情侣关系的一种灰色地带）。之前，两个人恋爱后，彼此是exclusive，这是毋庸置疑的，但是现在，很多西方人谈恋爱后，要考虑是不是要exclusive。*exclusive /ɪkˈsklu:sɪv/ adj. 独有的；排外的再一个原因是：更多divorced families（离异家庭）中的孩子逐渐长大，并且getting married（结婚），所以divorce is becoming more common（离婚变得更普遍），marriage is less serious（婚姻的尊严降低了）。3. 美国人对于男性出轨、女性出轨，态度不一样People react to cheating differently if a man or woman cheats.男性出轨是more common（更常见的），并且是is expected（在预料之中的）。但是，如果是女性出轨，人们的态度就会是more shocking（表现得更震惊）。在“男性出轨”这件事儿上，美国有句老话说，“boys will be boys”（本性难移）。开头我们提到的高赞评论，“Trash will always be trash”，和这句话，句型一样，而且对仗工整。4. 出轨后，会离婚，还是会原谅对方？在西方呢，如果婚姻中有出轨，不管男女，绝大多数，会以离婚收尾。Once a cheater always a cheater.（一次出轨等于永远出轨。出轨这事儿，只有0次和无数次的区别。）在男性和女性谁更容易出轨的问题上，在美国，men are more likely to cheat（男性更容易出轨）[详见公众号图片]。我们最后以Adam Levine的声明结束今天的节目：Alot is being said about me right now and I want to clear the air（澄清一下）. I used poor judgment in speaking with anyone other than my wife in ANYkind of flirtatious manner（调情的方式）.*flirtatious /flɜːrˈteɪʃəs/ adj. adj. 爱调情的I did not have an affair, nevertheless, I crossed the line（越界了） during a regrettable period in my life. In certain instances it became inappropriate（不恰当的）; I have addressed that and taken proactive steps（采取积极的措施） to remedy（修正） this with my family.*inappropriate /ˌɪnəˈproʊpriət/ adj. 不恰当的*proactive /ˌproʊˈæktɪv/ adj. 积极主动的*remedy /ˈremədi/ v. 改正My wife and my family is all I care about in this world.To be this naive（天真） and stupid enough to risk the only thing that truly matters to me was the greatest mistake I could ever make. I will never make it again.*naive /naɪˈiːv/ adj. 天真的I take full responsibility. We will get through it.我会负全责。And we will get through it together.我们会一起克服难关。请留言告诉我们，你有什么想说的，想讨论的。欢迎大家留言、点赞、转发。

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