介绍：一席英语出品主播：Win（美国）翩翩（中国）Greetings that require physical contact—hug西方的拥抱礼：Where are the hands at？手搁哪？How long is the hug？抱多久？what’s the context of the hug 拥抱礼，要分情况。比如，Best friend’ｓ wife,朋友妻，拥抱不拥抱？a.When they’re first engaged ，give her a nice short hug. 他们订婚时，首次见朋友妻，给她个短而暖的拥抱。b.When they’re at the wedding， give her a really long and emotional hug.他们婚礼上，可以给朋友妻，一个长而深情的拥抱。c.If she’s alone at home,I’m giving a very short and very simple hug.朋友妻自己在家，这拥抱，一定要短而简略1. Where are the hands at 拥抱时，手放在哪里？a. 拥抱礼，有两种：Full hug 满抱 Side hug：边抱2. 在什么场景下或遇见哪个国家的人，会脸颊碰脸颊（check to check 叮叮两下)呢？a.This is very European. 很欧式（欧洲国家比较常见）b. You’re on a first name basis.( 关系比较亲，直呼其名）3. 什么情况下会拥抱, 具体实用场景：Work related ：工作职场* Co-worker hug 同事间拥抱Only use hugs with people you’re close to（仅仅是熟悉的同事间，才会拥抱）.Not any co-worker. Even like a side hug (不熟的人，边抱也没有）Boss offers the hug 与老板拥抱Full hug is uncomfortable (满抱不是很合适）Side hug is acceptable （边抱可以接受）b. Friend related : 朋友之间️Say Goodbye （再见时拥抱）️Say hello （一般不会，除非很亲或是很长时间没见）c. for everyone 任何人This can be for everyone, especially in Texas(德克萨斯州）hugs are all around（到处都可以抱）Social creatures 人类都是社交动物If you don’t get that physical contact, it can actually be bad for your mental health 身体接触少的话，对我们的精神健康不利 �Physical contact 身体接触Mental health 精神健康爱拥抱人的人，会让人觉得trustworthy.4. 拥抱时，双方的关系很重要 relationshipsUnderlying 下属Minimize 减少romantic implications 浪漫的感觉怎么算是浪漫的拥抱的感觉呢？Around the waist 拦腰抱！如果，老板要拦腰抱女员工，大多都是想take advantage 占便宜。女员工可以这样拒绝，1.let’s turn into side hug （这样表达也不会turn the boss down让老板没面子）2. That’s a bit much(有点过了）, here’s a side hug.总结：西方拥抱礼，非常重要的几个点：Where are the hands at 手放在哪里a. 放在腰上 waist （恋爱关系）b. 放在后背上或肩上 on the back or on the shoulder (比较普遍）2. The time of the hug 拥抱多长时间通常情况下 Two to four seconds 2到4秒钟足矣再长就很尬啦除非关系是灰常灰常亲密或者是好久不见３.the Context of the hug 拥抱是在什么样的情境之下,你在哪里，和谁。。。4. hover hugs (手不碰到对方身体) this is not actually touching .Men is better to air on the side of cautious ，be careful just don’t put too much emotion or too much Intimacy ,this is way anyone feel comfortable.总之，社交拥抱时要谨慎些，不要放入太多情感在里面，这样都会舒服些怎么样今天的收获是不是很多哇更多精彩内容，我们下期见！欢迎留言、点赞、转发！

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