� 播客标题：第一印象：如何让人对你印象深刻？"First impressions last." 第一印象往往影响深远。今天我们会探讨第一印象的重要性，分享一个个人故事，提供一些有用的小技巧，并学习五个与第一印象相关的英语词汇！一句关于第一印象的中英格言"You never get a second chance to make a first impression.""你永远不会有第二次机会来创造第一印象。"这句话的意思是，当你第一次见到某人时，你给对方的印象将可能深深影响你们的关系，所以我们要好好把握每一次见面机会！一个关于第一印象的个人故事� Host (Lily):I want to share a personal story about my first impression of someone I met through Tinder.（我想分享一个关于我如何在 Tinder 上认识某人的故事。）I met Mattic, a guy from Slovenia, at a café near Chingmai University.（我在清迈大学附近的一家咖啡馆见到了 Mattic，他来自斯洛文尼亚。）At first, I thought he was a bit shy, but after talking for a while, I realized he was very talkative and deep-thinking.（刚开始，我觉得他有点害羞，但聊了一会儿后，我发现他其实很健谈，也很有想法。）Mattic 通过 Tinder 的个人简介对我产生了第一印象。他说：� "She had a really nice description which got me intrigued to her. And it was in English, which is a rare case for Tinder in Thailand."（"她的个人简介写得很好，让我对她产生了兴趣。而且是用英语写的，这在泰国的 Tinder 上很少见。"）� 光是简介就能影响对方对你的第一印象！这也提醒我们，不只是外表，言语表达也是建立好印象的重要关键！当我们终于在清迈大学湖畔的咖啡馆见面时，他的想法得到了确认。他说：� "So the first impression is now that we are sitting on the coffee. So basically it confirmed what I had in mind. Like, she is a really interesting person. I think we can have a really deep conversation because I hate small talks."（"当我们真正坐下来喝咖啡时，我的第一印象被证实了。她是一个很有趣的人，我们可以有很深入的对话，因为我讨厌表面的寒暄。"）� 第一印象的影响持续到我们的谈话内容。我们的聊天十分自然开放，让 Mattic 觉得很惊讶，因为他通常不会在第一次见面时分享太多个人故事。他补充说：� "I tend not to share things of my life with someone that I meet for the first time. And I think I'm sharing quite a lot with her, so that means that she's a really trustworthy person."（"我通常不会在第一次见面时分享太多个人故事，但这次我分享了很多，这意味着她是一个很值得信任的人。"）� 所以，第一印象不只是"看到"对方的样子，更是从对话、肢体语言和相处方式中，慢慢建立起的感觉。他会再次约我出去吗？（Would He Ask Me Out Again?）Mattic 的回答是：� "I would ask you out again because I think there’s a lot of things that are still hidden in there that need to be discovered. Definitely!"（"我会再约你，因为我觉得还有很多值得探索的事，绝对会！"）� 第一印象并不代表全部，但它确实影响我们是否愿意更进一步了解对方。那么，如何让自己的第一印象更加分呢？接下来，我将分享 5 个简单实用的第一印象提升技巧！什么是第一印象？（What is a first impression?）First impressions are the initial thoughts or feelings someone has about you within the first few seconds of meeting.（第一印象是别人在见到你的前几秒内，对你产生的最初想法或感觉。）为什么第一印象很重要？（Why are first impressions important?）Because they can influence how people perceive you, trust you, and interact with you.（因为它们会影响别人如何看待你、是否信任你，以及与你互动的方式。）5 个让你提升第一印象的技巧（Tips for a Great First Impression）Dress appropriately.（穿着得体。）You don’t have to wear a suit, but dressing neatly shows respect.（你不需要穿西装，但干净整洁的穿着能显示你的尊重。）Smile genuinely.（真诚地微笑。）A smile makes you look friendly and approachable.（微笑能让你看起来更友好、更容易亲近。）Make eye contact.（保持眼神交流。）It shows confidence and attentiveness.（这能展现自信，让人感觉你在专心聆听。）Listen actively.（积极倾听。）People love to be heard. Ask questions and show interest.（人们喜欢被倾听，提出问题并展现兴趣。）Be yourself.（做你自己。）Authenticity is key. People appreciate honesty and sincerity.（真诚是关键，人们会欣赏你的诚实和真挚。）5 个与第一印象相关的英语单词在这集播客里，我们学习了 5 个与第一印象有关的英语词汇！First impression（第一印象）� Your first impression matters a lot in a job interview.�（在工作面试中，第一印象非常重要。）Approachable（平易近人）� A friendly smile makes you more approachable.�（友好的微笑会让你看起来更容易亲近。）Charismatic（有魅力的）� She is a charismatic speaker who captivates her audience.�（她是一位有魅力的演讲者，能吸引观众。）Genuine（真诚的）� A genuine compliment can make someone's day.�（一个真诚的赞美可以让别人开心一整天。）Confidence（自信）� Confidence is key when making a first impression.�（在建立第一印象时，自信是关键。）行动呼吁（Call to Action）� Host (Lily):Alright, my dear listeners, now it’s your turn!（好了，亲爱的听众们，现在轮到你们了！）Think about a time when you made a strong first impression.（回想一下你曾经留下深刻第一印象的时刻。）Share your experience in the comments or send me a voice message!（在评论区分享你的经验，或者给我发语音消息！）Try using today’s vocabulary in real life!（尝试在日常生活中使用今天学到的词汇！）现在就到 ⁠Flywithlily.com⁠，下载离开舒适圈中英语挑战手册吧！

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