Aaron Doughty
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first heard Jul 2026
last heard 27 Jul
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is we hold on to subconscious beliefs.
We hold on to repressed energy from our past.
And one of the strongest things that I think actually holds us back is this one simple question right here.
It's who did you have to be as a kid to receive mom or dad's love?
Because whoever you had to be as a kid becomes the role and the identity that you live within as a survival mechanism in order to get by.
So one of the things I think that makes people more in an energy of attachment and not magnetic is that there's an attachment to an old identity of who they had to be.
Yes.
Yeah, that's the challenge is that a lot of times people will have like an identity.
They'll say like, oh, I am a people pleaser.
This is who I am.
Oh, I am a perfectionist.
You really aren't a people pleaser or a perfectionist.
You have a pattern that was a survival mechanism as a kid that allowed you to be who you thought you had to be to gain the approval or validation of mom and dad.
Right.
So don't ever say I'm a people pleaser or I'm this.
That's a pattern.
And then what's happened is you misidentified a pattern for an identity.
So instead, what you look at is you look at what are the parts of myself that I'm attached to?
that are keeping this pattern alive inside of my body.
And for me, one of the patterns that I had to shed a few years ago even was a pattern of people pleasing.
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