Aaron Doughty
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first heard Jul 2026
last heard 27 Jul
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Like freedom is the ability to be disliked.
What's so bad about being disliked?
We think that if someone dislikes us, it means there's something wrong with us.
We think there's something that we need to change about ourselves.
When in fact, someone else not liking you may have nothing to do with you.
And actually, if you can let other people not like you, you are actually free
because then you've given up the role of trying to change what other people think about you.
And as you know, being in the limelight and stuff like that, there's gonna be people that love what you do, there's gonna be people that don't like what you do, and everything in between.
It's a burden for a job to believe it's your job to please everybody.
But here's the thing also that people can recognize about this pattern is that the more authentic you are, the more you begin to respect yourself.
It's like you then will notice that other people, even though they may not approve of you in the same way, they'll respect you.
So would you rather give up approval and validation from other people because you approve of and validate yourself?
And in exchange, then there is many times respect.
And you've probably had that experience before where you meet someone that even if you don't resonate with them or agree with them, you respect that they express themselves authentically.
Yeah.
Yeah.
And in the same way, that's like another vein of a similar energy of being able to be misunderstood by people.
Because ultimately, if you know who you are and you're living by the values of integrity,
of vulnerability, of authenticity.
And when you express yourself when you normally thought it was bad, if it comes up from other people and they misunderstand you, it's recognizing that it's still not your thing to manage.
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