Aaron Doughty

And then I'm going to feel responsible for your stuff. And this is all subconscious, of course. But it's like, who else wants to play this game with me? And then if somebody else comes along and they have a regulated nervous system, you look at that and you go, eh. Not my person. Yeah, not my person. I don't feel it. There's no chemistry.

And then I'm going to feel responsible for your stuff. And this is all subconscious, of course. But it's like, who else wants to play this game with me? And then if somebody else comes along and they have a regulated nervous system, you look at that and you go, eh. Not my person. Yeah, not my person. I don't feel it. There's no chemistry.

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So I find it happens a lot with the people that I coach or the people that I see that are kind of going through this kind of transformation. It's a decision and a role that was picked up as a kid, but also subconsciously the belief is that if I can fix my partner,

So I find it happens a lot with the people that I coach or the people that I see that are kind of going through this kind of transformation. It's a decision and a role that was picked up as a kid, but also subconsciously the belief is that if I can fix my partner,

So I find it happens a lot with the people that I coach or the people that I see that are kind of going through this kind of transformation. It's a decision and a role that was picked up as a kid, but also subconsciously the belief is that if I can fix my partner,

they're going to love me they're going to give me what i need and they're going to meet my needs and then subconsciously if you take that a little bit further you can get down to the mother father child dynamic which is very powerful in understanding how we relate to other people

they're going to love me they're going to give me what i need and they're going to meet my needs and then subconsciously if you take that a little bit further you can get down to the mother father child dynamic which is very powerful in understanding how we relate to other people

they're going to love me they're going to give me what i need and they're going to meet my needs and then subconsciously if you take that a little bit further you can get down to the mother father child dynamic which is very powerful in understanding how we relate to other people

Because the mother energy, the father energy is both related to different aspects of our life as well as the inner child part of us. And what happens though is if we aren't soothing the part of ourselves that feels like they have to fix or feels unworthy, then what happens is we just keep playing these patterns out. So a huge part of this is understanding like where are we projecting ourselves?

Because the mother energy, the father energy is both related to different aspects of our life as well as the inner child part of us. And what happens though is if we aren't soothing the part of ourselves that feels like they have to fix or feels unworthy, then what happens is we just keep playing these patterns out. So a huge part of this is understanding like where are we projecting ourselves?

Because the mother energy, the father energy is both related to different aspects of our life as well as the inner child part of us. And what happens though is if we aren't soothing the part of ourselves that feels like they have to fix or feels unworthy, then what happens is we just keep playing these patterns out. So a huge part of this is understanding like where are we projecting ourselves?

our unresolved mom and dad stuff onto our potential partners or in our relationships? And where can we take responsibility for that and begin to nurture our own inner child? Because that inner child part of us really only wants attention from us.

our unresolved mom and dad stuff onto our potential partners or in our relationships? And where can we take responsibility for that and begin to nurture our own inner child? Because that inner child part of us really only wants attention from us.

our unresolved mom and dad stuff onto our potential partners or in our relationships? And where can we take responsibility for that and begin to nurture our own inner child? Because that inner child part of us really only wants attention from us.

Yeah, I've been caught in this pattern before, too, where I would be in a relationship where it was a dynamic where I felt like I had to fix someone else. It'd be someone that was starting to go through a big spiritual awakening or something like that. They're going deeper. And there's been times where I wake up and I realize that I'm trying to literally subconsciously fix them.

Yeah, I've been caught in this pattern before, too, where I would be in a relationship where it was a dynamic where I felt like I had to fix someone else. It'd be someone that was starting to go through a big spiritual awakening or something like that. They're going deeper. And there's been times where I wake up and I realize that I'm trying to literally subconsciously fix them.

Yeah, I've been caught in this pattern before, too, where I would be in a relationship where it was a dynamic where I felt like I had to fix someone else. It'd be someone that was starting to go through a big spiritual awakening or something like that. They're going deeper. And there's been times where I wake up and I realize that I'm trying to literally subconsciously fix them.