Aaron Doughty

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And what he would do is he would take responsibility for his interpretation and the fact that he could even see these files. He would then... clean. It's called cleaning. He would then clean his perception of it. And what he would do is he would see these people as healed. So what would happen is he would go, I'm sorry, please forgive me. Thank you. I love you. He would see these people as healed.
He would heal the parts of himself that were even able to interpret what he was reading in the paper. Well, what happened is the complete energy shifted in this place. Everything got turned around and he didn't actually even talk to and psychoanalyze the people thought that was fascinating.
Now, the other aspect of this, because I saw I read that and it just sounded too good to be true for me. I did a little more research on it.
Which I agree with what you're saying, too. That's kind of my theory or philosophy on it as well. Because he actually, even though he didn't psychoanalyze and work with people in a chair, what he did do is he would walk around the facility and engage with people. Just talk to them.
And not be afraid of them, and he would see them as healed, and anything he'd perceive in other people, he would take responsibility for. So he did actually engage with them, but he didn't go through and psychoanalyze them. Now, the way that I relate this to healing in our own life and how we can apply it is that how often do we expect or see certain people in certain ways?
So we expect certain people to let us down. We expect certain people to be in their patterns and we see them as maybe broken. But that image that we have, we may be also projecting onto them and we're not really holding the space for them to shift. And the deeper aspect of this that really goes down the rabbit hole of is who are we and why?
Are other people other aspects of our consciousness that we're perceiving of? Which is the deeper aspect that I really like looking at because other people in your life may be playing out certain subconscious patterns that are active inside of your field.
And when you make a shift inside of your field by taking responsibility for it, you might find that people either will shift out of your life if that pattern no longer resonates, or you will get a different version of the people that are in your life that are reflective of that new pattern and that new belief that you have about how people are.
So it becomes this interesting dance where it's like it's all a reflection anyways, but our job is we can't control the reflection, whether it's people leave or they come back, or it's more so about understanding the dynamic. Now, one quick thing I'll say about this, because a lot of times when I share this at live events or in even live workshops, et cetera,
people have trouble and challenges saying i'm sorry when they did it right yeah like you could just i know i'm thinking of also of your stepmom you know yeah yeah well it's like did it does it make it right yeah you know here's an interesting thing that i heard eckhart tolle actually talk about i thought was interesting the people that are playing out the patterns it's not really the person that did it to you it was the pattern inside of the person
So when we start taking the personalization and the identification of it out, it becomes a little bit less personal in the sense that this person was doing this to me. And the way that I heard this is Eckhart Tolle was talking about how at the deepest level of forgiveness, there's nothing to forgive.
which will trigger a lot of people when they hear that, but it's about understanding that it wasn't the divine essence of a person that did that to you, it was their traumatized self, it was the part of them that modeled that from the past or from their society, not saying it's right, But that is the energy. So it's not the divine essence of the person and their presence that did it.
It's the unconsciousness. Exactly. And that's when Eckhart Tolle says, you don't have to forgive. It's because it's more so connected to the unconsciousness is what did it. Because the consciousness inside of a person that is aware that this is a child or that this is another aspect of me, would you abuse another aspect of you?
if you knew that that person was was a part of you or if you knew what you were really doing probably not it's an unconscious part of you that's doing it or whoever you know whatever the situation is so the thing with this is is what you're talking to when you say i'm sorry please forgive me thank you i love you is you're saying that in correlation and communication with the divine with god
I'm sorry for perceiving. I'm sorry for even perceiving of this. Please forgive me for having this pattern inside of my energy field. Please forgive me for the unconsciousness that's within the collective consciousness that's within this energy. We're taking responsibility for the energy and the pattern and the unconsciousness that we can perceive of.
More so than we are taking responsibility for the person and what they did, because that's also kind of that's the story that we're talking about. And the part of us that doesn't want to let that go is the part of us that wants to continue to blame or the part of us that wants to continue to hold on to the story because it feels familiar.
I find that powerful. Even what you were just talking about, like if somebody's been cheated on, you can think about it like, the story, the surface level of the person and what they did becomes this surface level story.
But then you keep it in your field. And guess what you're more likely to attract in the future? Something that mirrors back the betrayal. And I remember Eckhart Tolle was, I like Eckhart Tolle, obviously. Me too.
That and The Power of Now for me is like... One time somebody asked about betrayal. I went through a betrayal. And he sat there for a second. He goes, betrayal. So heavy. It's like this betrayal is this heavy word. Ooh, this person betrayed me. It's got such weight and heaviness to it.
When at the core, When you look at what happened and our story about what happened, one is way more inflated than the other. What happened was you're in relationship with someone, someone broke the agreement or went off and slept with someone else. And that's what happened. But the story around this isn't fair and this is betrayal. And how could this be? And I couldn't didn't see it.
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