Abbie Chatfield

And now the roles have been reversed and you've been told, oh no, you can't have me.

Like I'm not comfortable with that.

So I'm out.

I think it's,

Part of me is like, is it because, you know, just like human nature of, oh, you've been told you can't have something now you really want it.

Or is it.

because you do have a weird fetish and you thought you could treat me badly and now you can't.

So now you're trying to like backpedal on that.

Or is it that they actually have a big fat crush on you and they can't handle the thought, like you were saying initially, it isn't about them, it's about the people they surround themselves with.

Well, I, like one of my exes, his parents were like not cool with me being trans.

Mm-hmm.

at all and i like that was definitely like part of what contributed to our breakup um and like i wasn't aware of that when we first started dating if i had been i would have cut it off then like i'm not gonna you know because even the friends and family you go if there's a whiff of it yeah i'm not yeah i i'm never ever gonna be with someone who is embarrassed of me um

And don't get me wrong, like I don't need to meet your family on the second date, but like I'm never, ever going to meet with someone who's embarrassed of me.

It's not worth a dollar for anyone.

And you've got many options.

There you go.

Sorry.

Sorry.

On to the next.

Okay.