Abby Wambach

And it's just like, it isn't interior.

Because it's interior, everything that you talk about has structural and societal and political implications.

It is called interior because it is a woman exploring it.

Like, I always think of the Audre Lorde quote, like, anything that I accept about myself cannot be used against me.

And so this idea that you are naming all of the things about yourself, which then other women can see in themselves and name for themselves and claim for themselves, it stops being a weapon used against us if it's something that we see and claim on our own.

And that is...

Hugely important because everyone's scared to say the thing because they know it's weaponized.

But here's the truth.

If you say the thing and claim the thing, it defangs the thing.

Okay, the next question is, Amanda, you've shared a lot about control, handling it all and feeling overwhelmed.

Where are you with that right now?

Have you found anything that is helpful?

Just an easy one.

Yeah, help the people.

Help the people.

I'm thinking.

So I had I shared a little bit about this on the tour.

But I what happened was I went through, you know, the year long cancer situation and

And someone texted me about, oh, no, it was, like, the day of the year anniversary of my diagnosis and was like, holy shit, it's been a year.

Like, congratulations.