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Adam Lane Smith

๐Ÿ‘ค Speaker
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Digital Social Hour
Adam Lane Smith: Attachment Styles Are Ruining Modern Relationships | DSH #1751

Wow.

Digital Social Hour
Adam Lane Smith: Attachment Styles Are Ruining Modern Relationships | DSH #1751

because we are flooded with cortisol during childhood and all that.

Digital Social Hour
Adam Lane Smith: Attachment Styles Are Ruining Modern Relationships | DSH #1751

Our brain says, I'm in a stress environment.

Digital Social Hour
Adam Lane Smith: Attachment Styles Are Ruining Modern Relationships | DSH #1751

I'm never going to be happy.

Digital Social Hour
Adam Lane Smith: Attachment Styles Are Ruining Modern Relationships | DSH #1751

So I don't need all this serotonin pathways.

Digital Social Hour
Adam Lane Smith: Attachment Styles Are Ruining Modern Relationships | DSH #1751

I'm not going to build them the proper way.

Digital Social Hour
Adam Lane Smith: Attachment Styles Are Ruining Modern Relationships | DSH #1751

I'm going to kind of build a couple, but I'll mostly focus and specialize in the stress.

Digital Social Hour
Adam Lane Smith: Attachment Styles Are Ruining Modern Relationships | DSH #1751

And that's what people like you and me and probably most of the people listening are dealing with right now.

Digital Social Hour
Adam Lane Smith: Attachment Styles Are Ruining Modern Relationships | DSH #1751

School, but your family, man.

Digital Social Hour
Adam Lane Smith: Attachment Styles Are Ruining Modern Relationships | DSH #1751

Look how fast you jump past that.

Digital Social Hour
Adam Lane Smith: Attachment Styles Are Ruining Modern Relationships | DSH #1751

Dad, don't get married, don't get married.

Digital Social Hour
Adam Lane Smith: Attachment Styles Are Ruining Modern Relationships | DSH #1751

Divorce, household, all this pain.

Digital Social Hour
Adam Lane Smith: Attachment Styles Are Ruining Modern Relationships | DSH #1751

Look how fast you jump through that into school.

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Adam Lane Smith: Attachment Styles Are Ruining Modern Relationships | DSH #1751

That's what most people do.

Digital Social Hour
Adam Lane Smith: Attachment Styles Are Ruining Modern Relationships | DSH #1751

They neglect that.

Digital Social Hour
Adam Lane Smith: Attachment Styles Are Ruining Modern Relationships | DSH #1751

You don't have to have a horrible childhood where you're suffering every single day to have attachment issues.

Digital Social Hour
Adam Lane Smith: Attachment Styles Are Ruining Modern Relationships | DSH #1751

Research shows that 65% of Gen Z, at least 65% of Gen Z, have attachment issues.

Digital Social Hour
Adam Lane Smith: Attachment Styles Are Ruining Modern Relationships | DSH #1751

On top of that, minimum 10% have personality disorders, potentially up to 15% or 20%, which is the most extreme version of attachment.

Digital Social Hour
Adam Lane Smith: Attachment Styles Are Ruining Modern Relationships | DSH #1751

So we're potentially looking at 80% of Gen Z having serious attachment challenges, maybe 20% securely attached.

Digital Social Hour
Adam Lane Smith: Attachment Styles Are Ruining Modern Relationships | DSH #1751

Holy crap.