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Adam Lane Smith

๐Ÿ‘ค Speaker
1176 total appearances

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Adam Lane Smith: Attachment Styles Are Ruining Modern Relationships | DSH #1751

That's usually the biggest problem.

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Adam Lane Smith: Attachment Styles Are Ruining Modern Relationships | DSH #1751

Yes.

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Adam Lane Smith: Attachment Styles Are Ruining Modern Relationships | DSH #1751

Does your fiance feel like you don't care?

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Adam Lane Smith: Attachment Styles Are Ruining Modern Relationships | DSH #1751

But you care more than anybody, right?

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Adam Lane Smith: Attachment Styles Are Ruining Modern Relationships | DSH #1751

That's going to be tough.

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Adam Lane Smith: Attachment Styles Are Ruining Modern Relationships | DSH #1751

So your prefrontal cortex will overdevelop and squash your emotional expression on purpose.

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Adam Lane Smith: Attachment Styles Are Ruining Modern Relationships | DSH #1751

It'll mute some of your ability to feel negative feelings, which is, in your case, good because you don't want to feel the pain, but it does mute some of your positive feelings as well, especially during stress.

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Adam Lane Smith: Attachment Styles Are Ruining Modern Relationships | DSH #1751

This can be overcome through training and experience.

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Adam Lane Smith: Attachment Styles Are Ruining Modern Relationships | DSH #1751

We can talk about that if you want to on or off the air.

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Adam Lane Smith: Attachment Styles Are Ruining Modern Relationships | DSH #1751

Quiet disorganized is what it sounds like to me.

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Adam Lane Smith: Attachment Styles Are Ruining Modern Relationships | DSH #1751

That is gonna have like a blank face.

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Adam Lane Smith: Attachment Styles Are Ruining Modern Relationships | DSH #1751

You can fix that too.

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Adam Lane Smith: Attachment Styles Are Ruining Modern Relationships | DSH #1751

You can fix pretty much everything you want.

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Adam Lane Smith: Attachment Styles Are Ruining Modern Relationships | DSH #1751

I'm just so relieved I could finally somewhat explain this to her.

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Adam Lane Smith: Attachment Styles Are Ruining Modern Relationships | DSH #1751

No, it's a huge thing.

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Adam Lane Smith: Attachment Styles Are Ruining Modern Relationships | DSH #1751

It's something I've pulled out in the last year or so with me and my team.

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Adam Lane Smith: Attachment Styles Are Ruining Modern Relationships | DSH #1751

It's massive.

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Adam Lane Smith: Attachment Styles Are Ruining Modern Relationships | DSH #1751

It's game changing for most people.

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Adam Lane Smith: Attachment Styles Are Ruining Modern Relationships | DSH #1751

I'm actually quite disorganized myself.

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Adam Lane Smith: Attachment Styles Are Ruining Modern Relationships | DSH #1751

I was just reading a paper, a research paper this morning that just came out very fresh that our serotonin receptors in our brain through childhood and adolescence, if they are not properly cultivated through high levels of cortisol and stress, that's actually correlated with attention issues, stress management issues, emotional regulation issues, relationship issues, anxiety, depression issues.