Adam Lane Smith

Our job is to establish safety on the perimeter, go out of the perimeter, gather resources, and bring them back inside the perimeter.

This is our job, okay?

Masculinity, humanity as a whole, this is the male job.

Perimeter, out, in.

As we get older, there's also a mentorship component.

We'll talk about that, but this is our job biochemically, okay?

Now, the feminine job is everything inside of this perimeter

when we come back in to provide warmth, nurturing, safety.

Now that sounds, those are buzzwords, right?

What does that mean?

When the female nervous system is completely calm and safe, when the perimeter is established around her, a physical safety perimeter where she's physically safe, a resource perimeter where she has all the resources she needs.

Even my clients, a lot of the women make more money than men.

That's not the issue.

If something went wrong, would he step up and get the resources for us?

Resource safety.

Emotional safety.

If I have big emotions, I take them to him.

He won't dismiss me or run away.

I don't have to walk on eggshells, but I also have protection from his emotions.

He's disciplined.