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Adam Lane Smith

๐Ÿ‘ค Speaker
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Digital Social Hour
Adam Lane Smith: Attachment Styles Are Ruining Modern Relationships | DSH #1751

As that happens, you generate more human growth hormone for wound healing.

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Adam Lane Smith: Attachment Styles Are Ruining Modern Relationships | DSH #1751

We say that the feminine has a healing energy.

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Adam Lane Smith: Attachment Styles Are Ruining Modern Relationships | DSH #1751

It literally tells us to heal.

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Adam Lane Smith: Attachment Styles Are Ruining Modern Relationships | DSH #1751

Right.

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Adam Lane Smith: Attachment Styles Are Ruining Modern Relationships | DSH #1751

We generate more serotonin in their presence.

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Adam Lane Smith: Attachment Styles Are Ruining Modern Relationships | DSH #1751

Right.

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Adam Lane Smith: Attachment Styles Are Ruining Modern Relationships | DSH #1751

The problem here is that we are not establishing safety for women.

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Adam Lane Smith: Attachment Styles Are Ruining Modern Relationships | DSH #1751

So they have to stay in their sympathetic masculine state.

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Adam Lane Smith: Attachment Styles Are Ruining Modern Relationships | DSH #1751

Right.

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Adam Lane Smith: Attachment Styles Are Ruining Modern Relationships | DSH #1751

So their oxytocin receptors are shut or very, very pale and pale but closed down.

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Adam Lane Smith: Attachment Styles Are Ruining Modern Relationships | DSH #1751

They're not generating much oxytocin, then they're not giving much oxytocin.

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Adam Lane Smith: Attachment Styles Are Ruining Modern Relationships | DSH #1751

They're in a low oxytocin, high sympathetic arousal state, stressed out all the time.

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Adam Lane Smith: Attachment Styles Are Ruining Modern Relationships | DSH #1751

Low oxytocin, low GABA, high unregulated cortisol.

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Adam Lane Smith: Attachment Styles Are Ruining Modern Relationships | DSH #1751

Their fertility is trashed.

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Adam Lane Smith: Attachment Styles Are Ruining Modern Relationships | DSH #1751

Their estrogen down, right?

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Adam Lane Smith: Attachment Styles Are Ruining Modern Relationships | DSH #1751

We see a 30% decrease in reproductive hormones when high stress and high trauma things are happening like that, and we're just feeling it chronically.

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Adam Lane Smith: Attachment Styles Are Ruining Modern Relationships | DSH #1751

30% testosterone decrease sounds pretty familiar for most people listening because we've seen that over the last 40 years.

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Adam Lane Smith: Attachment Styles Are Ruining Modern Relationships | DSH #1751

That's correlated with high anxiety, high stress like this.

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Adam Lane Smith: Attachment Styles Are Ruining Modern Relationships | DSH #1751

The men who are supposed to hold the perimeter go out into danger and then come back and immerse into that deep feminine energy, if you want to call it that, here in the middle.

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Adam Lane Smith: Attachment Styles Are Ruining Modern Relationships | DSH #1751

Our serotonin goes up.