Adam Lane Smith

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Passion Struck with John R. Miles · Why You Keep Repeating the Same Relationship Patterns | Adam Lane Smith - EP 782 · 18 Jun 2026 podcast

It's endless triaging in systems that don't make sense.

We live in artificial scarcity right now with an artificial scarcity mindset where there's actually abundance that could be shared and deployed.

And that endless scarcity grinds teams down to the bone.

People will abandon you and leave you, and then you'll be angry at them saying they were disloyal to you.

But in reality, you burned them out and treated them like an end, like a useless cog in the machine that could be rotated out without problem.

That's exactly the issue that we're seeing.

Yes.

I do have a quiz on my website for this if you want a longer version, but the short version is this.

Do you have a difficult time opening up to other people about your needs, your feelings, your concerns, and solving problems with them in the relationship?

If so, you probably have insecure attachment.

If you have insecure attachment, do you struggle to believe that you have self-worth?

You have low self-image and you think you are not a good person no matter what?

Do you think people will abandon you?

Are you afraid of abandonment?

Are you craving approval from other people?

And when you get that approval, does it finally feel like everything is right and safe and you experience euphoria?

If so, that's anxious attachment style.

If you struggle to trust other people and believe they will never be loyal to you,

If you think other people will get dysregulated and stressed out and betray you, inevitably, whether they're good or bad, you may not think they're evil people, but you just don't think they're trustworthy.

If you think you have to keep everything inside and if you share any emotions, it's a weakness.

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