Adam Lane Smith

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1,798 appearances 3 recordings 3 series first heard Jan 2026 last heard 22 Jun

Adam Lane Smith’s voice in public audio — every appearance, attributed to the second.

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Passion Struck with John R. Miles · Why You Keep Repeating the Same Relationship Patterns | Adam Lane Smith - EP 782 · 18 Jun 2026 podcast

That's how you trend towards secure attachments.

What I had to do when I was at the beginning.

the breakthroughs when we look at that what we tell people a breakthrough is it's when you can do repeatable and reliable changes that give you the experiences you're looking for to remap your brain it's not a giant clouds parting and the sun bursting through and you rend your garments and scream aloud that i finally have overcome that's not the breakthrough we're looking for you're looking for a hundred breakthroughs that over time repeatedly

break down the pathways in your brain and change them.

So a breakthrough you're looking for is I can finally tell my wife how tired I am after work and that I need 15 minutes to cool down instead of causing the same fight over and over.

I can finally ask my husband to help me feel loved by spending time in the evening with me.

I can finally tell my son how much I care about him instead of feeling like the words get choked in my throat because I don't want to be sappy.

I can finally have a boundary with my mother instead of letting her steamroll over me all the time, but I can do so in a way that she still feels loved and we don't fight about it.

I can tell somebody no at work and build the professional relationship without dismantling it so I don't feel like I'm in danger.

I can connect to the people I'm leading and actually connect to them and make them feel connective, bonded, secure, and want to stay in the company even as I'm still managing them correctly.

I don't dissolve the hierarchy and become their best friend.

I lead them correctly.

All of those would be breakthroughs.

I am finally capable of doing X that before was too hard for me to do.

Those are the breakthroughs we look for.

Best thing is adamlanesmith.com.

That's L-A-N-E like a road, adamlanesmith.com.

Me and my entire team of certified coaches are on there.

We have the attachment breakthrough program.

I'm leading a retreat here at the end of April, but my coaches are always year round on standby, ready to help you achieve those breakthroughs and overcome those barriers for good.

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