Adam Lane Smith

That's what women are doing in the dating world right now.

You know, 98% of women report that they would prefer to only have bonded, committed, loving sex.

But a lot of them are doing casual sex just because they feel like they have to.

Wow, 98% of women prefer that?

Massively, and it's not even close, massively prefer sex inside committed, loving, bonded relationships.

2% said, yeah, I prefer casual sex.

No, women are not really built for that.

If they are severely damaged through childhood sexual abuse, right, they may have a different take on it because they think that it's expected of them and they don't understand what the role of sex is or bonding.

And they usually have massively extensive attachment issues.

So it's very difficult for them to separate sex from any kind of relationship because it spills over and everything else because it did when they were a kid.

The lines are too blurred for them, but that's not a stab at victims, by the way, at all.

I work with a lot of victims of that deep respect, but we have to understand the role of actual sex and we have to understand the female sex drive and how it's built.

It is built for smart, smart women.

Men will view sex physically if they are more detached, especially.

Men are more visually stimulated and physically stimulated.

We have, if you want to talk about it this way,

Our ovulation cycle, as it is for us, is roughly every 72 hours.

Your testosterone spikes, you have a sex craze that comes on, and you have a generic sexual arousal.

I am aroused, what will I do with this?

That's roughly every 72 hours for us.