Adam Lane Smith

Only if that woman is worthy of trust.

That's the other side of it too.

Only if she's worthy of trust.

And I think that's one other reason prenups are important is because she needs to know what she's signing on for, but a man needs to know too.

Both sides need that financial peace of mind.

I don't think that we can go forward without prenups.

They do.

A lot of them try to rush in and do a post-nup during the divorce, which is brutal.

A lot of the guys do that because they freak out and they're terrified.

I think the worst thing that we can do is tell women that prenups are bad.

I think prenups protect women, and it needs to be in there of what will happen to you and how will you be safe, not you get nothing, I get everything, ha-ha, you're an idiot.

It's how will you guarantee her safety so that she doesn't have to be afraid.

But what's fascinating, and here's what's great, 70% of divorces are initiated by women, but a lot of those don't go to completion.

Once you begin the process, people see how awful it is, and then they start having a conversation.

Once someone pulls the trigger and says, okay, I'm thinking about divorce.

This is too much for me.

Now that begins a conversation.

Now it can begin negotiation.

Not always.

Not always.