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Adam Lane Smith

๐Ÿ‘ค Speaker
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Digital Social Hour
Adam Lane Smith: Attachment Styles Are Ruining Modern Relationships | DSH #1751

I have a lot of clients where the wife has been emotionally divorced for five years from her husband and then she files kind of thing.

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Adam Lane Smith: Attachment Styles Are Ruining Modern Relationships | DSH #1751

But, you know, we need to see what's going to happen.

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Adam Lane Smith: Attachment Styles Are Ruining Modern Relationships | DSH #1751

We don't need to be divorced like, oh, it's going to be this great magical experience.

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Adam Lane Smith: Attachment Styles Are Ruining Modern Relationships | DSH #1751

The woman will get the house and all the kids and all the money and ha ha ha.

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Adam Lane Smith: Attachment Styles Are Ruining Modern Relationships | DSH #1751

No, she needs to know the dark reality of what's going to happen.

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Adam Lane Smith: Attachment Styles Are Ruining Modern Relationships | DSH #1751

Right.

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Adam Lane Smith: Attachment Styles Are Ruining Modern Relationships | DSH #1751

Spell it out on paper before you sign the business.

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Adam Lane Smith: Attachment Styles Are Ruining Modern Relationships | DSH #1751

What do you think of business contracts that don't include a termination section?

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Adam Lane Smith: Attachment Styles Are Ruining Modern Relationships | DSH #1751

right what do you think of business contracts that don't explain how you're going to divide assets right now while you're calm so that when you're angry you don't have to worry about it it's necessary it's mandatory a lawyer would scream at you for not including that that has to be in a prenup but you know it doesn't have to be in the prenup or you know what what doesn't have to stop just just in the prenup it's not just how we're going to end a prenup is not how we're going to end our relationship

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Adam Lane Smith: Attachment Styles Are Ruining Modern Relationships | DSH #1751

A prenup is how will we build a business together?

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Adam Lane Smith: Attachment Styles Are Ruining Modern Relationships | DSH #1751

And one part of it is how would we end it?

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Adam Lane Smith: Attachment Styles Are Ruining Modern Relationships | DSH #1751

But how will we do it?

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Adam Lane Smith: Attachment Styles Are Ruining Modern Relationships | DSH #1751

Every month we will set aside, you know, every year we will set aside 5% of our total income into a joint savings account.

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Adam Lane Smith: Attachment Styles Are Ruining Modern Relationships | DSH #1751

If the marriage ends, the wife claims that entire amount.

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Adam Lane Smith: Attachment Styles Are Ruining Modern Relationships | DSH #1751

Cool.

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Adam Lane Smith: Attachment Styles Are Ruining Modern Relationships | DSH #1751

There we go.

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Adam Lane Smith: Attachment Styles Are Ruining Modern Relationships | DSH #1751

There's some safety, right?

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Adam Lane Smith: Attachment Styles Are Ruining Modern Relationships | DSH #1751

If something happens to her, she gets 5% of yearly income year after year after year.

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Adam Lane Smith: Attachment Styles Are Ruining Modern Relationships | DSH #1751

Well, she could probably hold on for another three years.

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Adam Lane Smith: Attachment Styles Are Ruining Modern Relationships | DSH #1751

And you know what could happen?