Adam Lane Smith

You guys can do couples therapy during that time or couples coaching.

Couples coaching is often more effective than couples therapy, I found from the research.

Couples coaching.

Couples' coaching is actually more effective.

Usually couples' therapy, quite often, it actually makes things worse for whatever reasons.

Yes, I say that as a former marriage and family therapist myself.

I split from that industry because I saw a lot of those stats and I wanted to do coaching instead, which is highly more effective for most people.

Coaching is very, very distinct.

Right.

Let's solve the problem.

Let's rehash the problem and take the woman's side and beat up on the man.

Most women don't even like the experience of couples therapy because it's just beating up on the man endlessly and ruining the marriage in front of you.

Wow.

So, yeah, couples couples therapy is not usually the approach we want it to be.

But with that in mind, that's I'll pause there.

I would.

Yes, I would sit down with her.

I mean, does she know that you're thinking of couples therapy?

That can be helpful just to get her perspective, but I wouldn't turn it into couples therapy.

It'll be really weird for her to step in because you've already got the thing.