Adrian Kaler

know so it is great to have that space and make sense you created some space for yourself to kind of reground yourself i tell my clients that all the time because we have got you know sessions that are set up throughout the month but i said you just call me bet to walk into a big meeting call me i'll be your you know i'll be i'm your corner man that's the metaphor i always use is let's get yourself straight so you don't mess that up because not all moments are the same right some moments are worth millions of dollars some are just worth nothing cost you a million dollars so but the ones that you need to be there for you better get your head straight

know so it is great to have that space and make sense you created some space for yourself to kind of reground yourself i tell my clients that all the time because we have got you know sessions that are set up throughout the month but i said you just call me bet to walk into a big meeting call me i'll be your you know i'll be i'm your corner man that's the metaphor i always use is let's get yourself straight so you don't mess that up because not all moments are the same right some moments are worth millions of dollars some are just worth nothing cost you a million dollars so but the ones that you need to be there for you better get your head straight

And don't – last thing I'll say is don't give your future to your whims. Give your future to your commitments.

And don't – last thing I'll say is don't give your future to your whims. Give your future to your commitments.

Yeah. Wow, you're right in my wheelhouse. This is what I care about. This is why I do this work, because it's primal. Like everybody. There's this quote that a client of mine told me. I think it's a Don Miller quote, if you know Don. I think it's Don. Maybe he was quoting somebody else. But he said, something like, we all yearn to be fully known and to be loved anyway.

Yeah. Wow, you're right in my wheelhouse. This is what I care about. This is why I do this work, because it's primal. Like everybody. There's this quote that a client of mine told me. I think it's a Don Miller quote, if you know Don. I think it's Don. Maybe he was quoting somebody else. But he said, something like, we all yearn to be fully known and to be loved anyway.

obviously alluding to the fact there's shit in all of us that we don't want to be public and we're scared to death of and we're irredeemed still and all those things and the devils we fight in our private lives and things we're unwilling to face. We all have that, all of us. Every single human, I would assert, has that.

obviously alluding to the fact there's shit in all of us that we don't want to be public and we're scared to death of and we're irredeemed still and all those things and the devils we fight in our private lives and things we're unwilling to face. We all have that, all of us. Every single human, I would assert, has that.

And that's what we're dying to say and dying to have heard and then someone look us in the eye and say, hey, I'm with you. You're okay.

And that's what we're dying to say and dying to have heard and then someone look us in the eye and say, hey, I'm with you. You're okay.

love you anyway because for me that's the voice of god um that's the most beautiful thing about the whole redemption story is that oh yeah you are you are it's worse than you think and you're loved more than you can imagine that it just gives me goosebumps because we're all dying for that i know i am um it's become popular this imposter syndrome framework become popular because this is it, right?

love you anyway because for me that's the voice of god um that's the most beautiful thing about the whole redemption story is that oh yeah you are you are it's worse than you think and you're loved more than you can imagine that it just gives me goosebumps because we're all dying for that i know i am um it's become popular this imposter syndrome framework become popular because this is it, right?

This is the, what if they think of me like I actually privately think of myself? And then people say they suffer from imposter syndrome. They don't. We just have language for it now that helps me know what I'm still avoiding and helps me know the risk I'm still unwilling to take. So I, you can tell all my language is always hyper responsible. So it comes off maybe kind of harsh.

This is the, what if they think of me like I actually privately think of myself? And then people say they suffer from imposter syndrome. They don't. We just have language for it now that helps me know what I'm still avoiding and helps me know the risk I'm still unwilling to take. So I, you can tell all my language is always hyper responsible. So it comes off maybe kind of harsh.

Um, I don't mean it that way, but, uh, honest truth is always like, you know, harsh, it's tough. It cuts us. And that's the point of it is it's here for us to mold us. So to answer your question, if someone is in this context and I'll kind of re configure the question, there are parts of us that Well, a handful of things.

Um, I don't mean it that way, but, uh, honest truth is always like, you know, harsh, it's tough. It cuts us. And that's the point of it is it's here for us to mold us. So to answer your question, if someone is in this context and I'll kind of re configure the question, there are parts of us that Well, a handful of things.

First off, whatever confession you end up making, whatever you say to your group, I always say like the leader's confession is he's the last one to the party. Everybody knows whatever you like are going to say to your group or say to your team that seems so vulnerable to you. They talk about it already. Trust me. They know it.

First off, whatever confession you end up making, whatever you say to your group, I always say like the leader's confession is he's the last one to the party. Everybody knows whatever you like are going to say to your group or say to your team that seems so vulnerable to you. They talk about it already. Trust me. They know it.

They, you know, so you're the last one at the party, whatever you're going to decide to finally own in public, they've known it for a long time. So that's relieving kind of, it's kind of not relieving. Um, but I would say that, that like your impact speaks more than your intentions. Um, So but you'll be more free. And this is how this is, I think, the leadership into the next generation.

They, you know, so you're the last one at the party, whatever you're going to decide to finally own in public, they've known it for a long time. So that's relieving kind of, it's kind of not relieving. Um, but I would say that, that like your impact speaks more than your intentions. Um, So but you'll be more free. And this is how this is, I think, the leadership into the next generation.