Aja Evans
π€ SpeakerAppearances Over Time
Podcast Appearances
It's very understated.
You don't talk about money.
It's very, it's icky to bring it up.
People are scared to dive in.
And then when the conversation gets rolling, that's when they're like, oh, wait, actually, I don't like that.
No, no, actually, I do want that.
It's like Pandora's box.
They don't want to open it because I think they know once they open it,
They're going to have to have a lot of hard conversations with one another.
And when you're in love, you just want to live in this bliss of like there's never going to be any issues.
Nothing's going to come up, blah, blah, blah.
But I also think that to our point earlier, prenups have this idea behind it that says that you're coming from wealth.
And people don't always want to tell everybody that they're wealthy.
People don't want to tell each other that they're wealthy.
The amount of couples who enter into marriage not knowing how much debt or how much the other person makes is large.
I'm sure there's so many married couples who still don't know that.
Yes, they don't know where the money is.
They don't know what's going on.
They don't know how much this person's getting paid.
I mean, both parties.