Aja Evans

It's mostly one person coming and saying, well, I want X, Y and Z and I want to be protected.

And the other person saying, I don't care how long you stay.

I don't want to give you any of this.

It's a little bit, I mean, it's adversarial, right?

That's why you have two people who are represented by other people.

So it's not always just like from my perspective, lovey-dovey.

Yeah, I mean, listen, typically you see an imbalance in earnings.

So when the couple comes, there's always one person who earns substantially more than the other.

It's very rare that you see two people who are equally making the same.

Yeah.

It's typically a very large disparity.

And the person who is financially in a better position wants to keep most of it.

And the person who's not in the financially well position wants more of it.

So it's just about who gets a piece of the pie and who's willing to fight for it.

Yeah.

So this is a perfect example of if you were in therapy, I'd be like, well, you knew that this person was in this position.

Like, what are you thinking marrying this person knowing they're going to be in this position, keeping them in this lifestyle and not expecting them to want to stay in that lifestyle if?

You got divorced.

So I think like while it might start off at sunshine and rainbows, like it depends on the kind of therapist you're getting.

I'm a little sassy, so I don't mind saying that to a client and being like, well, come on.