Aja Evans

They just aren't as vicious as I would say men are.

Do you nudge them?

What do you mean?

I'm like, f***.

him like you don't even know what will happen no listen um this is my homegirl over here like this is your ride or die that's so real that's so real like i am riding for you what do you mean and then you'll actually find the men because of their ego they'll be like well i don't want it's okay i don't want x y or z great and when they're in that mood i'm like strike strike a shark i am here i love it i love it for it

I don't know any direct patterns, but I can assume that if you're having conversations about money, you're probably having conversations about other hard things like religion, like family.

Every therapist says there's like five things that could lead to a divorce, money being one of them.

And if you're talking about money, chances are you're probably talking about the other stuff.

So I don't know if that then is going to automatically correlate to longer marriages, but it is going to be more self-aware couples.

I think communication is always such a relationship deal breaker for people.

Like when they are not communicating as a couple, this is what causes problems, right?

So I completely agree.

If you're talking about money and that is a very hard subject to talk about and it feels like we shouldn't be talking about it.

Religion, lifestyle, how do we want to educate the children?

So that's the two things I always tell people to talk about before you get married, money and children.

Yeah.

You need to be on the same page about both things.

Promises so that it sounds like just more romantic.

Just like promises.

You know?