Aja Evans

Yeah.

And it's better to be proactive about it versus like what ends up happening is that people come to me after and they're like, I just didn't know.

I feel so bad.

I made this huge mistake.

I wish I would have, could have, would have, should have kind of thing.

And they feel awful about it.

So to your point and kind of your sharing, yes, it's pretty bad when you're going back and forth and just trying to figure it out.

It's really uncomfortable.

Yeah.

But at the end, like it's all taken care of.

You don't have to worry about it.

And the amount of stories that I hear about people whose spouses, you know, whatever happened, they were sick and it changed their attitude or their mood.

So they did something different.

They wrote people out of the will.

They wrote kids out of the will.

Oh, wow.

I had a client, this isn't well-related, but this man was cheating on her for a long time.

So they decided in the marriage that they're going to go to a therapist so that he can deal with his sex addiction or whatever it was.

Why does he start having an affair with the therapist?

No, stop.