Alex Tarnava

I agree.

This is part of the nuance that I think a lot of people are missing, right?

You get the one side, you know, in our current institutions and academia and such, let's say any struggle is bad, it's harm, it's damage.

People want safe spaces.

They want to be weak and strength is evil and toxic.

That is complete bullshit, right?

Yeah.

But on the other side, people glorify pain.

just for pain, right?

We need the right amount of stress and struggle followed by the right amount of recovery to adapt and learn and become stronger.

And then we need to move forward and expand ourselves again.

I agree.

I, I'm,

I remember hearing a recorded lesson from Tony Robbins when I was maybe 19 years old, 18 years old, and I'm getting the concept right.

I might be getting the verbiage wrong, but he was talking about your sphere of competency.

And most people just stay within their sphere of competence and they get to the outer limit and they turn back and revert into themselves.

Really, we grow when we get to that edge and we push and we struggle and we try to get through that outer edge.

And maybe we just move a foot forward.

And maybe it was very hard, but now we've overcome that challenge or partially overcame that challenge.

And we have hope that we can get even farther the next time.