Alexis Fernandez
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first heard Jul 2026
last heard 8 Jul
Alexis Fernandez’s voice in public audio — every appearance, attributed to the second.
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Happy Hour with Lucy & Nikki · Attachment Styles ft. Alexis Fernandez | Part Two · 8 Jul 2026
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Yeah, like if you are that compelled where you have to check the partner's phone and like you're like, I know I shouldn't, I know I shouldn't, but I have to, I have to, I have to.
Why?
What are you feeling?
What have you seen?
There's something that set that off.
And that's why you're feeling the way you're feeling.
Great question.
Great question.
And I think it's... Very self-aware.
Very self-aware.
And with that question at the end, I think it's a mix between doing as much as you can to control what is within your control.
Like what can I do to mitigate like my levels of anxiety and things like that, which I think she is doing already.
But then you also need a partner who is willing, exactly what she said, which is kind of what we said in the last episode, but who's willing to come to the table, even if it goes a little bit against what they're naturally prone to do in a relationship.
Like for him, it's like, oh, I don't need this.
It's fine.
I do care.
I just don't show it, whatever.
Ultimately...
A relationship has to be somewhat selfless, not completely, but you can't, it's not all about you.
It's a partnership.
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