Alexis Fernandez-Preiksa

For me, I like to think that I had a good relationship with myself in my twenties and it was fine.

It was decent.

It was sound.

There was a lot of like learning curves in my life, but I can say for sure, I didn't actively work on it and get much better at it until I entered my thirties.

Okay.

Now,

This is really important when we look at all the themes.

This one is who do you want to become internally?

And I think the most important question to ask yourself is what are my priorities now?

This has to be a really conscious question that you ask yourself now.

If you don't ask yourself this question, you're just going to be repeating more of the same from your 20s.

What are my priorities now?

And I think based on my personal experiences and based on many people that I know in their 30s and also you guys who have written in, one of the biggest shifts that we have as humans from our 20s to our 30s is the desire to prioritize peace of mind.

So I think it's really healthy for you to also make that determination, make it very clear and say, this is going to be my priority moving forward.

I need to focus on peace of mind.

But what does peace of mind look like?

It is not wanting to be involved in unnecessary drama.

Now, I'm not talking about the fun venting or the little gossip here and there.

I'm not talking about that.

I'm not a saint.