Alexis Fernandez-Preiksa

So you can either just answer these as I go through them.

You can listen to everything and then go back and write them down.

And they're questions you can ask yourself.

Do however you want to do, but I'm going to break it into identity, timelines, career relationships, life design, and closing the chapters of your twenties.

And I've got a bunch of questions for each one.

So settle in and get your fucking matcha and let's go.

So questions to ask yourself, these statements in identity.

What parts of my identity do I need to let go of in order to grow?

The good and the bad.

There's going to be certain parts of your identity that you find really fun, but they don't align with who you want to become moving forward.

So get clear on that.

What do I need to stop wasting time on based on what I have learned in my 20s?

Am I being intentional with my decisions or am I just living in a follow-on from my 20s?

Do my current decisions align with the ideas I have for my future self?

Habits, behavioral addictions, actions, lack of action, protecting yourself, etc.

So that's identity.

Timelines.

Am I actually behind or am I measuring myself against the wrong timelines?

Like that example I gave last week, where if you are, you know, in this state of hanging around people all the time who are doing everything way younger than you even want to, you're going to feel behind.

But if you were to change your environment and look at people that live a life closer aligned to the style of life you want to live, then you're probably not going to feel behind.