Alexis Fernandez-Preiksa

Okay.

So it's important to know who you're measuring yourself against.

And do you even want to

to be measuring yourself against those timelines just because it's the norm.

Do you want that?

Because if you want it, okay, it is what it is, but a lot of the time you don't.

What does success mean to me?

Is it a feeling or is it what other people view me as and why?

Career.

If I was starting over, knowing what I know now, would I choose the same career?

If not, why not?

And what could I put into practice now to change that?

So you might not be able to quit your career right now.

You might obviously be making good money and whatever, but knowing that maybe it's important that you realize if I still feel this way when I'm turned 40, I'm probably still going to feel that way.

So what can I do about it?

There's always something we can do, okay?

Whether it be you can maybe stay in the same industry, but maybe a different kind of job, whatever it is.

Am I staying because I don't know what else I want to do or because I'm scared to do what I really want?

What risks would feel harder to take in 10 years versus taking them now?

Now we're going to relationships.