Alexis Fernandez

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Happy Hour with Lucy & Nikki · Attachment Styles ft. Alexis Fernandez | Part Two · 8 Jul 2026 podcast

I'm like, you absolutely should not be checking through your partner's phone.

I think every single individual is entitled to

Privacy.

And it's not even personal.

Like imagine going through your partner's phone and his brother has sent something super personal that's not for your eyes and you've just got like inappropriate.

Like people are entitled to private conversations.

So don't snoop through your partner's phones.

What do you think about that?

I mean, it does happen for sure.

I don't think it's a blanket rule for every relationship.

I think that it also depends on...

Because, and the reason why I say that is, if you're someone that's a bit of a serial cheater and who's always looking for the next kind of adrenaline hit in a relationship, then it's probably more likely that that's what's going to happen because of maybe the kind of relationships that you were getting into, the really volatile ones, the ones that, like we were talking about in the last episode where it's kind of, it's all or nothing and it's the ups and downs.

That might be very...

You're obsessed with the excitement and so is the other person and then you leave your current partner for that other person and then the person you left them for then does it to you because they are modelling a similar behaviour to yours or not modelling but they mirror that behaviour.

But then there's also definitely scenarios where you do just fall in love with someone and while you should have ended your thing earlier, totally there was an overlap and it's inappropriate but, you know...

I think obviously cheating is not right under any circumstance, but at the same time, people are human and make stupid decisions sometimes.

Oh, yeah, yeah.

There's people, like, refuse to be alone, refuse to... It's because they're constantly getting all this...

You know, all their validation comes from other people, but then the other issue is that they put the responsibility of their happiness onto other people.

So when I got into a relationship with you, I was really happy.

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