Alexis Fernandez
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first heard Jul 2026
last heard 8 Jul
Alexis Fernandez’s voice in public audio — every appearance, attributed to the second.
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Happy Hour with Lucy & Nikki · Attachment Styles ft. Alexis Fernandez | Part Two · 8 Jul 2026
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It's kind of like... Basically, yeah, what I'm saying ultimately is if they're just refusing to do it because it's like, oh, it's just not naturally mere, it's not my... In my opinion...
They don't love you in the right way.
They just don't.
I'm sorry.
You're a convenient relationship and they might care for you, but ultimately they don't.
Because put them in a relationship where they have someone that they cannot lose, watch them change their behavior.
If they're with someone who they don't want to risk losing, people change their behavior.
Yeah.
If they're willing to lose you... So basically dump him and see what happens.
No, basically... Well, I mean, ideally first start with healthy communication.
Like make the requests...
And then say, you're not trying to threaten either.
You're not trying to threaten with a breakup.
But what you do try and in a healthy way communicate across is that ultimately when people do break up, it's not this, often it's not this catastrophic event.
It's all these little tiny, tiny, tiny, tiny, it's a straw that broke the camel's back.
When you go on for long enough not feeling loved, not even got to do with, this is not even necessarily anxious or not anxious.
If someone's not willing to meet you in the places that you need to be met to feel loved,
eventually you're going to crack.
And then it's those men like, the divorce came out of nowhere.
No, I can't.
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