Alice Wilder

But at the same time, I don't want him to feel stunted in his career and resent me.

What should I do?

Signed, move out or move on.

Okay, the guy I'm dating financially supports his family, and I know he's in a lot of debt.

At the same time, he insists on paying for everything.

For example, we recently went to see a movie together, and since I got to the theater before him, I got our tickets and a couple of sodas.

He insisted on buying two more sodas because he couldn't accept that he wasn't paying for the date.

I make a good living and would love to split expenses more evenly.

Part of this is cultural.

We're both Arab.

And I don't want to embarrass him by citing his debt as a reason for us to split things.

But I also don't want dating me to make his financial situation even worse.

Signed, Dating Debt.

There's also only two cup holders and your seats.

So what are you going to do with four sodas?

Yeah.

Like logistically it doesn't make sense.

Okay, are y'all ready for our final question?

Okay.

I recently overheard a conversation between my long-term girlfriend and her mom where they were speculating about whether or not I knew that my girlfriend had over $50,000 invested in oil.