Alice Wilder

I did not know this.

I've been struggling to get by and had no idea she had that much money to invest in anything, let alone oil.

I'm pretty progressive and care deeply about climate change as an issue.

I understand it's impossible to be fully divested from fossil fuels, but 50K is a pretty major investment.

It's her money, but it does seem to reveal a big difference in our values.

Should I bring this up to her?

Signed, divest from dating.

I think the fact that the mom and the girlfriend were having this conversation speculating about whether he knew makes me think that they know that he would have a problem with it being oil that like, I think adds a layer of like, I mean, my partner and I talk about like which stores we shop at and which ones we don't or which products we feel good about buying and which ones we don't, you know, a year in.

If I found out someone who I'd been with long-term was investing in something and actively keeping it a secret that I was really morally opposed to,

I didn't write this letter, but I'm like, I would feel a type of way.

Reba, what's going on with that question?

Okay, I have our first question.

I've been working as a consultant for the last four years.

90% of my work during this time has been directly or indirectly through a very successful man.

A year ago, that work dried up.

When I reached out, he emphasized to me that he's working on a new solo project.

A few months later, I saw him post about his new business on LinkedIn.

When I checked the website, my photo and bio were there, as if I was a part of his team.

I do not work for this man.

I'm also the only senior woman on his site, so I feel like I am being used as window dressing for his business.