Allison Holker

Did you see – So it's a helpful tool, but I'm going to take it one step further. So when my therapist taught me that tool, that it's a reflection of that person and their own insecurities. You're too big. You're too small. You're not pretty. You're too pretty. Whatever it is, it's always a reflection of how that person feels about their own insecurities.

Did you see – So it's a helpful tool, but I'm going to take it one step further. So when my therapist taught me that tool, that it's a reflection of that person and their own insecurities. You're too big. You're too small. You're not pretty. You're too pretty. Whatever it is, it's always a reflection of how that person feels about their own insecurities.

But I'm going to take it one step further because what I now use as my tool for myself is is anything I say about someone else is a reflection of how I see myself. Because if I'm ever gonna be so hateful and terrible towards someone, it's because I'm feeling that way about myself. So you can also use it as a tool of reflection of what you say to someone or about someone. And who you wanna be.

But I'm going to take it one step further because what I now use as my tool for myself is is anything I say about someone else is a reflection of how I see myself. Because if I'm ever gonna be so hateful and terrible towards someone, it's because I'm feeling that way about myself. So you can also use it as a tool of reflection of what you say to someone or about someone. And who you wanna be.

And who you wanna be. So the mirror, the reflection is on both sides.

And who you wanna be. So the mirror, the reflection is on both sides.

Yes, I can. So I am currently in a relationship with Adam Edmonds. And honestly, I'm so blessed that he's in my life. He's so beautiful. He's wonderful to me. He's great with my children. He's a support system. He makes me laugh. We share in such amazing conversation. He helps me explore the world, explore myself.

Yes, I can. So I am currently in a relationship with Adam Edmonds. And honestly, I'm so blessed that he's in my life. He's so beautiful. He's wonderful to me. He's great with my children. He's a support system. He makes me laugh. We share in such amazing conversation. He helps me explore the world, explore myself.

And we have conversations that really explore life and each other and take us to bounds and leaps and places I never thought I could go. And while also being really fun and lighthearted, it feels like on our relationship, everything feels easy. And of course it's not, there's a lot that we still have to work through and navigate and work out together.

And we have conversations that really explore life and each other and take us to bounds and leaps and places I never thought I could go. And while also being really fun and lighthearted, it feels like on our relationship, everything feels easy. And of course it's not, there's a lot that we still have to work through and navigate and work out together.

But doing with someone that you love and sees you and hears you fully is just, it's something that I appreciate so much in him, in that we get to share in life and experience it together. And there's an outpouring of respect that we have. And we both have been through so much.

But doing with someone that you love and sees you and hears you fully is just, it's something that I appreciate so much in him, in that we get to share in life and experience it together. And there's an outpouring of respect that we have. And we both have been through so much.

And I think when both parties have experienced loss or grief in your life, you just want to celebrate that person and lift them up every single day. And I feel like that's what we try to do. And we do that. And it's something that's so beautiful. I'm so happy that I gave myself permission in my life to have love and experience and freedom with someone.

And I think when both parties have experienced loss or grief in your life, you just want to celebrate that person and lift them up every single day. And I feel like that's what we try to do. And we do that. And it's something that's so beautiful. I'm so happy that I gave myself permission in my life to have love and experience and freedom with someone.

And I am just so grateful that God brought him into my life. He's been so wonderful.

And I am just so grateful that God brought him into my life. He's been so wonderful.

Yes. Oh, it was so perfect. Literally, the moment I met him, it was just out of this world and the connection is deep and so rooted. And it feels like we've been together in past lives. And we were always supposed to find each other and just reconnect and be together. And it needed the right moment in life for us to be able to accept each other.

Yes. Oh, it was so perfect. Literally, the moment I met him, it was just out of this world and the connection is deep and so rooted. And it feels like we've been together in past lives. And we were always supposed to find each other and just reconnect and be together. And it needed the right moment in life for us to be able to accept each other.

and be there for each other fully at our full capacity and our full love, full availability. And it has been just magnificent and perfect. And it's interesting when you've gone through life in the way that we have, people get really scared to admit that. And I just want to yell it and scream it that I'm in love and it's beautiful. And I, and I love that my kids get to see it.

and be there for each other fully at our full capacity and our full love, full availability. And it has been just magnificent and perfect. And it's interesting when you've gone through life in the way that we have, people get really scared to admit that. And I just want to yell it and scream it that I'm in love and it's beautiful. And I, and I love that my kids get to see it.