Alvin Lui
👤 SpeakerAppearances Over Time
Podcast Appearances
And they had to say four words, four magic words.
I identify as blank.
Once they say that, they get transported to this magical club.
And once they get into this club, they experience social value that they have never experienced before.
Right.
They are worshiped.
They are love bombed.
They can never be criticized.
They are protected.
And so here's the problem, Haley.
When you're that young, that kind of dopamine hit, it's almost impossible to step away from.
And you know what?
Even as adults, this is why social media is so addictive, even for adults, right?
When you get like, you post something and it gets better.
than normally and you get this dopamine hit.
Imagine when you're a child.
So the thing about the dopamine hit is that when you say, I identify as blank, it's just a statement.
You haven't really done anything to yourself yet.
But once that love bombing dies down, you got to step it up.
You got to start changing your look.