Amber

Yeah, but the first thing that I would ask, who said that?

So you're going to have to go to the other person and say, listen, this really hasn't, it's not sitting well with me.

I'm considering retracting the wedding invite.

No, you don't say, I'm considering retracting the wedding invite.

To the person who told it to you.

Oh, okay, fine.

Yeah, I thought you were talking about the person that you were asking.

Okay.

And say, because that will put them in a corner and put them under pressure to be like, okay, maybe I exaggerated a little bit and just be like, I just want you to know I am going to have to broach it with her or him because it's making me incredibly uncomfortable.

Obviously, my brother is gay.

He's LGBTQ.

So I just want you to know because they're going to ask who told me so.

Emma will get in.

Well, only half of Emma will get in.

but that's what I mean the person that's sharing it like you can't be going around saying disparaging remarks like that about someone so you put them up against the wall and you say listen did you fucking say it did they say it are you fucking hello dramatizing dramatizing am I okay what

Yeah.

And also people process things in different ways or perceive things in different ways.

Something that might be said to Vogue, she could be perfectly fine with it, but not necessarily a gay comment or something like that, but just something someone might say to Vogue, she would perceive it completely different to how I would perceive it.

So also keep that in mind.

I'll update you.